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How to Handle Mixed Signals in Dating
How to Handle Mixed Signals in Dating
The psychology you need to know, mistakes to avoid, and tools for success.
Manj Bahra
Oct 30, 2024
5 of My Clients Got Engaged This Year — Here’s What They Did Differently
5 of My Clients Got Engaged This Year — Here’s What They Did Differently
Secrets from their success
Manj Bahra
Sep 20, 2024
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
How to spot warning signals before it’s too late
Manj Bahra
Aug 23, 2024
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The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29, 2023
A Complete Guide To Letting Go Of Romantic Rejection
A Complete Guide To Letting Go Of Romantic Rejection
A blueprint for acceptance and immense personal transformation
Manj Bahra
Jul 5, 2020
Stop Waiting For Others To Give You Closure
Stop Waiting For Others To Give You Closure
Don’t be a victim waiting for permission to move on
Manj Bahra
Jul 30, 2021
The Essential Step You Must Take To Heal Heartbreak Rapidly
The Essential Step You Must Take To Heal Heartbreak Rapidly
How To Avoid Prolonged Pain and Experience Transformation
Manj Bahra
Nov 20, 2023
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Why Unrequited Love Is The Greatest Gift
Stop resisting rejection and grab the golden opportunity at hand
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Stop Pretending You Want To Be Friends With Your Crush
Sometimes you just need to be honest instead of putting yourself through more pain
Manj Bahra
Apr 13, 2020
Three Principles For The First Date
Three Principles For The First Date
Want to get the most out of a first date as quickly as possible? This is the guide for you.
Manj Bahra
Apr 17, 2023
Why I Changed My Mind On Marriage
Why I Changed My Mind On Marriage
Is marriage a good idea, or an antiquated institution due for decommission?
Manj Bahra
Mar 19, 2020
Some People Are Not Meant For You — and That's OK
Some People Are Not Meant For You — and That's OK
Not everything is meant to be, yet everything happens for a reason.
Manj Bahra
Aug 12, 2022
How To Create A Product That Doesn’t Suck, But Over-Delivers
How To Create A Product That Doesn’t Suck, But Over-Delivers
A simple process to keep you focused on what matters — the customer
Manj Bahra
Jan 19, 2020
Are You A Gollum In Dating?
Are You A Gollum In Dating?
The brutal truth about most rejection
Manj Bahra
Jul 6, 2022
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
Don’t stay stuck waiting for closure. Try these proven methods to reclaim your sanity and move on.
Manj Bahra
Jan 19, 2024
How To Save Your Relationship
How To Save Your Relationship
Proven ideas to rekindle the magic and have a breakthrough
Manj Bahra
May 22, 2021
You Are Born Worthy
You Are Born Worthy
Self-esteem and worth are not earned — they are rediscovered
Manj Bahra
May 1, 2021
Why You Repeat Patterns in Dating
Why You Repeat Patterns in Dating
The lesser-known science & psychology influencing your behaviour (it’s not just your attachment style)
Manj Bahra
Jan 23, 2024
How To Turn Heartbreak Into Immense Personal Transformation
This week, I’ve been inundated by e-mails and messages from people struggling with unrequited love. Given what we’re all going through now…
Manj Bahra
Feb 27, 2021
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