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The Invisible Influence in Your Love Life
The Invisible Influence in Your Love Life
How a Little-Known Cognitive Bias Can Shape Your Dating Decisions
Manj Bahra
Nov 25
The Essential Step You Must Take To Heal Heartbreak Rapidly
The Essential Step You Must Take To Heal Heartbreak Rapidly
How To Avoid Prolonged Pain and Experience Transformation
Manj Bahra
Nov 20
Five Principles To Improve Your Decision-Making
Five Principles To Improve Your Decision-Making
Quicker, Easier, Smarter: Transform Your Decision-Making Process for Life-Changing Results
Manj Bahra
Nov 12
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10 Strategies To Move On From Heartbreak
10 Strategies To Move On From Heartbreak
From Heartbreak to Healing: Lessons from Five Years of Relationship Coaching
Manj Bahra
Nov 8
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Three psychological concepts you have to understand if you’re chasing an unrequited love
Manj Bahra
Oct 27, 2019
Are Twin Flames Real Or Justified Obsession?
Are Twin Flames Real Or Justified Obsession?
An unbiased look at the most popular theory of soulmates
Manj Bahra
May 5, 2020
A Lesser Known Reason Why You Can’t Let Go Of Your Crush
A Lesser Known Reason Why You Can’t Let Go Of Your Crush
The psychological effect preventing you from moving on — and how to overcome it
Manj Bahra
May 5, 2020
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
A blueprint for moving on from the pain of rejection
Manj Bahra
Nov 9, 2019
Stop Waiting For Others To Give You Closure
Stop Waiting For Others To Give You Closure
Don’t be a victim waiting for permission to move on
Manj Bahra
Jul 30, 2021
4 Steps To Stop Pedestalizing Your Crush
4 Steps To Stop Pedestalizing Your Crush
A simple process to help reclaim your sanity and stop idealizing another person.
Manj Bahra
Aug 31, 2021
When A Crush Becomes An Obsession — The Signs Of Limerence
When A Crush Becomes An Obsession — The Signs Of Limerence
Don’t mistake obsession for love until you read this.
Manj Bahra
Jun 9, 2019
Three Quick-Hacks To Stop Pedestalizing Your Crush And Regain Your Worth
Three Quick-Hacks To Stop Pedestalizing Your Crush And Regain Your Worth
Knock them off the pedestal and rapidly reclaim your sanity with these three simple techniques.
Manj Bahra
Feb 15, 2022
Why You Can't Let Go: 5 Cognitive Biases Keeping You Stuck
Why You Can't Let Go: 5 Cognitive Biases Keeping You Stuck
Struggling to move on from someone? Here are 5 biases that could be holding you back.
Manj Bahra
Aug 3
Navigating the Minefield of Modern Dating
Navigating the Minefield of Modern Dating
Two Huge Challenges of 21st-Century Dating and How We Can Approach Them
Manj Bahra
Mar 4
Unusually Attracted To Someone? You Might Be Psychologically Projecting
Unusually Attracted To Someone? You Might Be Psychologically Projecting
Before you decide it’s love, make sure you know the five stages of projection.
Manj Bahra
Jan 17
Should You Be Friends With Your Crush Or Walk Away?
Should You Be Friends With Your Crush Or Walk Away?
The questions you need to ask before accepting the friend-zone
Manj Bahra
Apr 5, 2020
How To Transform Your Life with ONE Word
How To Transform Your Life with ONE Word
Shift your mindset and change your world with this simple hack.
Manj Bahra
Aug 15
How To Stop Obsessing Over Someone
How To Stop Obsessing Over Someone
When the standard advice doesn’t work, it’s time to go deeper
Manj Bahra
May 27, 2021
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