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How to Deal with Mixed Signals (Without Losing Your Mind)
How to Deal with Mixed Signals (Without Losing Your Mind)
Don’t make this critical mistake…
Manj Bahra
Jan 27
The I Love You Test
The I Love You Test
A 30-second exercise that changed my life
Manj Bahra
Jan 27
Is It Just Friendship — or Something More?
Is It Just Friendship — or Something More?
3 signs you can’t deny…
Manj Bahra
Jan 26
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Brutal Dating Truth That ALWAYS Saves Time and Pain
Brutal Dating Truth That ALWAYS Saves Time and Pain
My #1 lesson from coaching 500+ clients
Manj Bahra
Jan 22
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
The Science Of Going No-Contact and Why It Works
Confused about going no-contact? Let science decide for you.
Manj Bahra
Mar 29, 2023
Want to make 2025 different? Here’s the brutal truth.
Want to make 2025 different? Here’s the brutal truth.
This changed my life (and will help you too)
Manj Bahra
Jan 18
The #1 Thing Keeping You Stuck
The #1 Thing Keeping You Stuck
It’s not even your fault…
Manj Bahra
Jan 19
Why Am I Obsessed with Someone? Exploring Limerence
Why Am I Obsessed with Someone? Exploring Limerence
Can’t stop thinking about another person? It’s time to check for Limerence
Manj Bahra
Mar 22, 2024
My Secret Method for Destroying Overthinking
My Secret Method for Destroying Overthinking
3 steps to break free from the confusion
Manj Bahra
Jan 20
The Mental Model That Changed My Life
The Mental Model That Changed My Life
Feel like nothing’s working? This is for you.
Manj Bahra
Jan 23
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
5 Early Signs He Won’t Commit
How to spot warning signals before it’s too late
Manj Bahra
Aug 23, 2024
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
How To Create Closure Post-Heartbreak: Four Science-Backed Strategies
Don’t stay stuck waiting for closure. Try these proven methods to reclaim your sanity and move on.
Manj Bahra
Jan 19, 2024
4 Science-Backed Strategies to Create Closure Post Heartbreak
4 Science-Backed Strategies to Create Closure Post Heartbreak
Don’t stay stuck waiting for closure. Try these proven methods to reclaim your sanity and move on.
Manj Bahra
Mar 21, 2024
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Why We Chase People Who Don’t Want Us — The Psychology Of Romantic Obsession
Three psychological concepts you have to understand if you’re chasing an unrequited love
Manj Bahra
Oct 27, 2019
Are Twin Flames Real Or Justified Obsession?
Are Twin Flames Real Or Justified Obsession?
An unbiased look at the most popular theory of soulmates
Manj Bahra
May 5, 2020
5 of My Clients Got Engaged This Year — Here’s What They Did Differently
5 of My Clients Got Engaged This Year — Here’s What They Did Differently
Secrets from their success
Manj Bahra
Sep 20, 2024
Can’t Move On? 5 Cognitive Biases Keeping You Stuck
Can’t Move On? 5 Cognitive Biases Keeping You Stuck
Understand these mental traps and finally move forward.
Manj Bahra
Jan 24
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
How To Move On From Someone Who Doesn’t Want You
A blueprint for moving on from the pain of rejection
Manj Bahra
Nov 9, 2019
Your Romantic Relationships Are A Metaphor For Your Life
Your Romantic Relationships Are A Metaphor For Your Life
How you are in love has more of an impact than you think
Manj Bahra
Apr 24, 2021
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