Freedom

Can Virgins Have a Fulfilling Sex Life?

Let’s dare to defy cultural standards that limit our sexual…

Raising My Sexual Standards

My “yes” must be enthusiastic — and ecstatic

Can We Expand Our Definitions of Sexual and Romantic Love?

The structures we have now feel dangerously…

The Things I’ll Say to a New Lover the Morning After

Imagining my sexual authority in action

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What Women Can Learn About Sex from Men

Let’s view their sexual privilege as…

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The One Thing We Need to Bring to the Bedroom

It’s more important than toys, porn…

What Does “Dirty Girl” Really Mean?

Are we failing to call out invisible sexism in the bedroom? Or is…

Challenging Sexist Stigmas Around Female Masturbation

Masturbation is the shameless sexual privilege…

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Stop Asking Us About Our Pubic Hair

Our appearance is not up for discussion

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What Happened When I Came Out as a Sex Blogger

Suddenly, everyone wants to talk…