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Howl by Y.L. Wolfe
A column exploring female sexuality and equality
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Can Virgins Have a Fulfilling Sex Life?
Can Virgins Have a Fulfilling Sex Life?
Let’s dare to defy cultural standards that limit our sexual expression and enjoyment
Y.L. Wolfe
Nov 3, 2020
Raising My Sexual Standards
Raising My Sexual Standards
My “yes” must be enthusiastic — and ecstatic
Y.L. Wolfe
Nov 24, 2020
Can We Expand Our Definitions of Sexual and Romantic Love?
Can We Expand Our Definitions of Sexual and Romantic Love?
The structures we have now feel dangerously limiting
Y.L. Wolfe
Nov 17, 2020
The Things I’ll Say to a New Lover the Morning After
The Things I’ll Say to a New Lover the Morning After
Imagining my sexual authority in action
Y.L. Wolfe
Nov 10, 2020
What Women Can Learn About Sex from Men
What Women Can Learn About Sex from Men
Let’s view their sexual privilege as inspiration for developing our own
Y.L. Wolfe
Oct 20, 2020
The One Thing We Need to Bring to the Bedroom
The One Thing We Need to Bring to the Bedroom
It’s more important than toys, porn, or even your partner…
Y.L. Wolfe
Nov 15, 2019
What Does “Dirty Girl” Really Mean?
What Does “Dirty Girl” Really Mean?
Are we failing to call out invisible sexism in the bedroom? Or is this just a harmless moniker?
Y.L. Wolfe
Jul 19, 2019
Challenging Sexist Stigmas Around Female Masturbation
Challenging Sexist Stigmas Around Female Masturbation
Masturbation is the shameless sexual privilege of every man. Why shouldn’t the same be true for women?
Y.L. Wolfe
Aug 2, 2019
Stop Asking Us About Our Pubic Hair
Stop Asking Us About Our Pubic Hair
Our appearance is not up for discussion
Y.L. Wolfe
Aug 14, 2019
What Happened When I Came Out as a Sex Blogger
What Happened When I Came Out as a Sex Blogger
Suddenly, everyone wants to talk about sex…
Y.L. Wolfe
Sep 1, 2019
The Revolutionary Act of Pursuing Female Sexual Fulfillment
The Revolutionary Act of Pursuing Female Sexual Fulfillment
Women deserve to shamelessly pursue their orgasms
Y.L. Wolfe
Sep 20, 2019
Give Yourself Permission to Just Have Sex
Give Yourself Permission to Just Have Sex
If you’re waiting for a relationship but ready to have sex, maybe it’s time to have some fun.
Y.L. Wolfe
Dec 20, 2019
Why Sexual Bucket Lists Are Important
Why Sexual Bucket Lists Are Important
And why you should make one.
Y.L. Wolfe
Jan 17, 2020
The Beauty & Terror of Surrendering to Our Passion
The Beauty & Terror of Surrendering to Our Passion
Should we set ourselves free and allow our passion to run wild?
Y.L. Wolfe
Feb 14, 2020
Can We Let Go?
Can We Let Go?
A set of liberating sexual challenges to ponder.
Y.L. Wolfe
Apr 10, 2020
Mothers Are Sexual Beings — Get Over It
Mothers Are Sexual Beings — Get Over It
Women can’t be sexually liberated until mothers are able to express their sexuality without shame.
Y.L. Wolfe
May 15, 2020
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