Self Improvement

No Man Is an Island

“No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. If a clod be washed away…

Crossroads

All of a sudden, a crossroads. There I was, just going along trying to see if this new phase in my life would work out, no really difficult…

Coming to the Edge of an Abyss and Fronting Only the Essential Facts of Life

What is it about the idea of non-sexual intimacy, and friendship, that scares Black men from embracing other Black…

A Pragmatic Approach to Self Improvement For the Desperately Lazy

I am incapable/unwilling/too lazy to…

Essay

“If you are not making someone else’s life better, you are wasting your time.” (Will Smith)

Time — is something precious and every living beeing’s time is counted. We don’t know how much time we have in life. We just know it’s not going to be endless. So why should we be wasting our time if…