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How This Teen Lesbian Can Avoid Conversion Therapy

Heartbreak, loss, and recovery

How Can LGBTQ Teens Cope With Homophobic Lockdown?

When COVID-19 dashes your dreams

Should He Risk Heartbreak for Sex With a Straight Guy?

Sometimes a hookup is more than a hookup

Do You Have to Like Anal Sex to Be Gay?

No! But you might be able to learn

YOU Can Help Stop AIDS: Personally

When your friends need help

Gay Men Get Unsolicited Dick Pics Too

It’s neither funny nor acceptable

Sleeping With a Man to Stop Being a Lesbian

How a friend can be supportive

How Can a Trans Gay Teen Talk Turkey with His Boyfriend?

Taking intimacy to the next level

Gay Dating: Respect & Sensitivity

How can a young gay man ask for intimacy?

How Can a Gay Teen Know If He’s Ready to Kiss?

On attraction, consent, and knowing your body

How Can This Gay Teen Escape a Poisonous Affair with a Cheating Older Man?

Practical advice from the…

Help a Friend Recover From Homophobic Self Loathing

What can YOU do to give support?

How a High School Student Can Be a Real LGBT Activist

Passion leads to action

Porn Addiction and Erectile Disaster

Maybe not as tragic as you think!

His New Boyfriend Has HIV. Is Sex OK?

Yes! U=U changes everything.

Non-Binary and Stressed by Trans Support Groups

How can her voice be heard above the howl?

Gender Fluid, Pansexual, and in Love with a Jerk

What do they do now?

Is It Ok for a Gay Teen to Like Older Men?

This teen boy wants some straight answers

Forced Apart! How to Recover from Lost Love?

A gay uni student asks about grief

Bisexual, Orthodox Jewish, and Scared to Come Out

She wants rainbows, not skeletons in her closet. But…

My Boyfriend Won’t Give Back in Bed

How to work on sex and intimacy in a new relationship

How Do You Ask a Gay Guy to Have Sex?

Young, just out to himself, and clueless

A Gay Girl Sleeping With Her Straight Crush

Aunty, this will never do! Help!

My Boyfriend Won’t Come Out

Should I be his dirty little secret?

The Condom Broke Inside Me

Aunty Jimothy, I’m terrified of HIV! What do I do?

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