Benefits and Disadvantages of Being a Male

Like most living creatures in the earth, human are categorized into male and female. Members in this two groups have their specific roles in human society. I believe it is not only biological problem, but also sociology and anthropology problem when we…

Struggling and moving forward

Up until now, I’ve been study abroad for almost one year. It’s really been through a lot. I plan a lot but still feel lost. After I read this article, I agree with the author, though I haven’t personally experienced some of her points.

Reality Shock

I was lost, and yes I still feel lost. Prior to deciding which college I should attend, I did some research on each university I got…

On My Way to Leave

Before I arrive to UCSB last September, I have never visited here before. Though I had done some research and watched others’ experiences before I came here, but I realized later that things were different and more complicated that what I thought.

Caution: Assumed Male Responsibility Ahead

“You have to watch out for your sister and take care of her.” In my family, I am the oldest child; my sister is three years younger than me. Both of my parents often reminded me that part of my responsibility to the family was to look after my sister…

Men, Go Ahead to Protect the Country, the World, the Universe.

“Honestly, I don’t care.” As my dad told me to watch the speech given by Emma Watson about calling for more gender equality, I told him that I didn’t care. As long as I am able to do the things I am doing today, then I…

Solace in Santa Barbara

Prior to unpacking the Uhaul trailer full of my life’s possessions in Santa Barbara, I had lived a semi-gypsy life…

My Thought About UCSB

Prior to arriving UCSB, I was lost, I don’t know what to do to get ready for my university life. I feel confused about my life then, I don’t know if I can feel comfortable to a new environment. Also, culture differences are another serious problem to me. I never come to USA before I come to UCSB, this…

Why I Chose UCSB?

Firstly, I have to admit that UCSB was not my first choice, and I had depressed for a long time after I decided to go to UCSB. Santa Barbara is famous for Sunshine, beach, and incredibly beautiful view. As a person who doesn’t prefer big city or late night joy, I felt that UCSB may be a good…

Why males are not supposed to cry?

When I was little, I often can’t help cry. Sometimes I just could not hold my emotion and cried. For example, when I saw some moving movies or when I was bullied by other children, I would cry. When I grow bigger, I started to know that males are not supposed to cry…