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Polyamory to save a marriage
Polyamory to save a marriage
Can trying out polyamory save a marriage that’s been wrecked by cheating and dishonesty? Check out our column.
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Aug 7, 2020
Feeling left out and alone
Feeling left out and alone
What happens when you move in with a triad and feel like you’re not being included, all while missing your partner?
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Jul 24, 2020
Can you learn compersion?
Can you learn compersion?
Is compersion something you can learn and is there something wrong with you if you don’t feel it? Check out our column.
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Jul 10, 2020
Gaslighting and polyamory
Gaslighting and polyamory
How do you deal with a partner claiming your opinions and attitudes changed after a stroke? Check out our most recent column.
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Jun 26, 2020
Curing codependency with polyamory
Curing codependency with polyamory
Can polyamory be used to cure your co-depenency? Check out our most recent advice column.
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Jun 12, 2020
Trial separation to try polyamory
Trial separation to try polyamory
Would a trial separation while exploring your options work in seeing if polyamory is for you? Check out our advice column.
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May 29, 2020
Polyamory and the LGBTQ community
Polyamory and the LGBTQ community
Is polyamory more representative in the LGBTQ community? Check out our most recent advice column.
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May 15, 2020
How many chances should you give?
How many chances should you give?
Your partner has cheated — again. But this time they’ve suggested trying polyamory. Should you give them another chance?
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May 1, 2020
Age gaps in polyamory
Age gaps in polyamory
How do handle a situation where you want to explore more as a younger person with an older partner? Is polyamory the answer?
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Apr 17, 2020
When your partner marries another
When your partner marries another
What happens when your partner marries another and you notice they stop paying as much attention to you?
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Apr 3, 2020
Overcoming vaginismus in polyamory
Overcoming vaginismus in polyamory
Is choosing polyamory the right choice after overcoming vaginismus and wanting to explore your sexual options?
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Mar 13, 2020
Is it better to hide your feelings?
Is it better to hide your feelings?
If you find yourself getting upset a lot, is it better to hide your feelings in polyamory or be honest about them.
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Feb 28, 2020
Why couples always want a triad
Why couples always want a triad
How do you add someone to your relationship for a closed triad, and why do couples always seem to want a closed triad?
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Feb 14, 2020
Metamour makes all the rules
Metamour makes all the rules
Your metamour insists your partner go no contact with you for six months. Is that fair?
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Jan 31, 2020
Polyamory as a treatment for infidelity
Polyamory as a treatment for infidelity
Is opening your relationship the ‘cure’ for infidelity? Can you trust a partner who has cheated to listen to your boundaries?
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Jan 17, 2020
Energy for everyone but you
Energy for everyone but you
What happens when your partner seems to have energy for all of their partners but none for you and your household?
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Jan 3, 2020
Are your needs ‘reasonable’?
Are your needs ‘reasonable’?
When should you check in with your partners about dates with other partners and is it reasonable to need alone time with your partner?
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Dec 20, 2019
Possessiveness and polyamory
Possessiveness and polyamory
How do you stop feeling possessive over partners when you’re just trying non-monogamy for the first time?
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Nov 22, 2019
Parenting and polyamory
Parenting and polyamory
How do you approach polyamory after giving birth? What considerations should you have about polyamory while parenting?
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Nov 8, 2019
Monogamous partner in non-monogamy
Monogamous partner in non-monogamy
Can you be monogamous while your partner is polyamorous? Does that work or is it doomed to failure?
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Oct 25, 2019
Relationship broken? Add people.
Relationship broken? Add people.
Is non-monogamy just a band-aid? Is polyamory just something you do when you want to have sex with other people?
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Oct 11, 2019
Managing trauma and polyamory
Managing trauma and polyamory
What do you do if you have a lot of needs caused by previous relationship trauma and you feel it’s driving your partner away?
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Sep 27, 2019
Should I date a couple?
Should I date a couple?
How do you lay the groundwork for an effective and long lasting triad? Can the ‘third’ start the work? Should they?
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Sep 13, 2019
Can I be replaced?
Can I be replaced?
What if you just can’t shake the feeling that you can be replaced by someone else? Can you be polyamorous and be afraid of being replaced?
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Aug 30, 2019
Can you compromise on polyamory?
Can you compromise on polyamory?
What if your partner wants polyamory but you can’t do it? Are there ways to handle that or compromise?
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Aug 16, 2019
How to find a unicorn
How to find a unicorn
Looking for a unicorn? It may not be as simple as you think and you may have some ideas to challenge in yourself.
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Aug 2, 2019
Open relationships after cheating
Open relationships after cheating
If your partner has been cheating on you, can you go into an open relationship to keep them? And should you?
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Jul 19, 2019
Can polyamory fix a sexless marriage?
Can polyamory fix a sexless marriage?
What happens when you’ve been married for years but there is no longer any sex? Is polyamory the best solution?
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Jul 5, 2019
Rushing into polyamory
Rushing into polyamory
How soon is too soon to open your relationship? Is there a right time to start? Or an ideal grace period?
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Jun 21, 2019
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