Now I Write What I Want

40 Ways You’ve Already Messed Up Your Life

I’ve just dragged my way through a milestone birthday. I bet you can guess which one…

One Week Later: Build Your House on These Rocks You Can Kick

LANK Is Not A Dream

C’mon now.

One Week Later: LANK is Nobody’s Dream

We’re in the social media age. In many ways that’s beautiful. We’re all connected. We’re all seeing the same things and responding to them. It’s the ‘trending’ era. Every day something…

I Wrote a Book! Black to Work: Working While Black in Corporate America

Parental Advisory

I’m struggling right now. I’m feeling disappointment. I’m a father. My first born son just turned 18 and, well, lets just say that I’m struggling with accepting where he’s headed right now. I’m feeling all sorts of feels about it. I’m going through all sorts of ups and downs about what to do or…

Victory

These cheeks have felt more tears than smiles

Halfway

Today is my half birthday. So. What. Jinx. I know you thought it. Be honest. But yea, so what? A half birthday is essentially meaningless. I…

Gimme Some More

How do you feel about yourself? Are you proud of you? Are you ashamed of you? Or maybe you’re kind of indifferent about you? Me…

Feel The Love

When I was preparing to get married I got all sorts of advice. Marriage counseling provided a ton of tidbits and wisdom nuggets, of…