How long does it take to “get over” sexual trauma?

Lady Garden Landscaping? Pluck no!

What do you think pubic hair is for?

Choke your own chicken, mate — not me.

Getting blackout drunk, not having an internal “stop now” alarm is a serious red flag.

Safety is Sexy AF

I’ve been thinking recently about sex and safety. Not in a “get tested regularly, use protection” kind of safety (although yes…

Of *course* someone has invented a VR/AI sex toy for men.

Commitment and freedom aren’t an oxymoron.

I had a conversation with a close friend recently, where she told me that she is 100%…

Sex Should Not Be Painful: The Stigma of Vaginismus

My Second First Time

Note: Originally published in The Syndrome Magazine, November 2019

Remind me — what was normal, again?

I’m tired of feeling “not normal”.