You’re safe. Your fears are all lies.

I spoke to two men this week and had similar conversations about fear and safety. Men don’t…

Hiding from the present.

Sometimes it just feels too much to be out in the world of other people.

The nice thing about having a job is that you can hide for a bit, book yourself a meeting room, or put your earbuds in and do some pretend…

Listening within as well as without

Listen within, listen within.

About this series

You might come to this at any time in your life. You don’t *have* to be Pale or Male, but it helps. You feel stale and stuck. Nothing seems to work anymore. You might hit this at forty, or twenty-eight or you might be lucky and hold out till fifty-two but it’s likely that at some point, just…

Procrastination is difficult to spell

I should look it up in the dictionary someday when I have time.

“Never put off to tomorrow what you can do today.” I have a deep visceral reaction to this line. No! It will be better. It will be better if we do it later or tomorrow. Let’s…