How to Stop Fighting With Your Partner: Two Steps Make You an Expert

Deciphering Men, Part II: Mounting Evidence of Fear Disguised as Anger

I’m a psychologist — and the stories I tell about my husband are exactly like the tales I hear every day, as married women talk about what’s going on at home.

Anxiety disguised as…

Deciphering Men, Part I: What Does it Mean When My Partner Looks Angry?

I hate it when my husband gets angry. One night, getting ready to go out to dinner with some old friends, I glanced over to ask him what time we were supposed to be meeting them at our local Thai restaurant…

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva: A Beginning

Introduction: How to Learn the Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

A True Story: Over-Population, Global Warming, Epidemics & Life in the Behavioral Sink

This is a true story:

In the 1940s, psychologist John Calhoun began a series of studies on rats and mice living in ideal laboratory conditions, no enemies…

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva: Verse 3

Don’t engage disturbances and emotional reactions gradually fade away;

Don’t engage distractions and spiritual practice…

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva: Verse 1

“Now that I have this great ship, a precious human life, so hard to obtain,

I must carry myself and others across the ocean of…

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva: Verse 11

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva: Verse 7

Locked up in the prison of their own patterning

Ordinary gods can not protect anyone.

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva

Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva: Verse 4