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Seven Years of Sobriety
Seven Years of Sobriety
Today marks seven years of sobriety for me. Hard to believe sometimes because if feels longer in some respects, but shorter too.
Mindy F.
Jan 16, 2021
Living with PTSD with Depersonalization
Living with PTSD with Depersonalization
I have officially been diagnosed with PTSD with Depersonalization. But this diagnosis is only recent. I avoided this moment for a long…
Mindy F.
Oct 2, 2019
Back to My Journal Again
Back to My Journal Again
I’m going back to my journal again. I can’t remember the last time I wrote consecutively in my journal, but I can tell you, it’s been a…
Mindy F.
Jul 27, 2019
Sobriety Experience
The Universe Is Not Against You
The Universe Is Not Against You
We’ve all had days where anything that could go wrong, did. Those days when nothing seems to be going your way. Frustrating, isn’t it?
Mindy F.
Aug 3, 2016
Dealing With Loss In Sobriety
Dealing With Loss In Sobriety
Everyone grieves in their own way. Dealing with the loss of someone you love, a friend, or anyone is hard to do. Especially in sobriety…
Mindy F.
Sep 21, 2016
The Importance of Remembering My Roots
The Importance of Remembering My Roots
Remembering my roots, where I came from, remembering I am an alcoholic, is very important for me today. Honestly, I need reminders every…
Mindy F.
Oct 12, 2016
Losing Someone To The Disease of Alcoholism
Losing Someone To The Disease of Alcoholism
Tonight I received a harsh reminder. Last night my Fellowship community lost one of our fellow members to alcoholism. And it fucking sucks…
Mindy F.
Oct 14, 2016
O’Doul’s In Sobriety
O’Doul’s In Sobriety
Drinking O’Doul’s in sobriety can be a good, or bad experience, depending on what mindset you are in. I cannot give you a straight answer…
Mindy F.
Oct 26, 2016
Love And Tolerance
Love And Tolerance
Today I came to the hard realization that I have not been showing love and tolerance in my daily affairs. Especially in regards to a…
Mindy F.
Nov 23, 2016
Celebrating Birthdays
Celebrating Birthdays
Milestones Of Sobriety Time
Mindy F.
Dec 2, 2016
Why I Go To Meetings
Why I Go To Meetings
The other night I was reminded, once again, why I go to 12 Step meetings. I am reminded every so often of the importance of meetings…
Mindy F.
Dec 8, 2016
Remember The Lessons, Not The Disappointments
Remember The Lessons, Not The Disappointments
As 2016 comes to a close I am seeing, and hearing, many people say they are ready to see this year gone. So many celebrity legends have…
Mindy F.
Dec 29, 2016
Seeing Life Through New Glasses
Seeing Life Through New Glasses
This week I saw life through new glasses both literally, and figuratively. Literally because yesterday I got new glasses, after having my…
Mindy F.
Mar 8, 2017
Why I Call Myself An Alcoholic
Why I Call Myself An Alcoholic
In this post, I will explain why I call myself an alcoholic. The reason I am writing this post is because I’m sick of so many people…
Mindy F.
Apr 26, 2017
My Response To “Wondering”
My Response To “Wondering”
After reading the letter “Am I An Alcoholic?” on Laura McKowen’s blog “Letters to Laura”, I was upset, on the verge of angry. Laura’s…
Mindy F.
Apr 26, 2017
My Journey To Alcoholism
My Journey To Alcoholism
Today I would like to share my journey to alcoholism, or if you prefer, Alcohol Use Disorder (AUD). With so much information out there, it…
Mindy F.
May 4, 2017
My Alcohol Evaluation Experience
My Alcohol Evaluation Experience
Today I’d like to share my alcohol evaluation experience in hopes that it helps you, or someone you know, start the process of reaching out…
Mindy F.
May 10, 2017
Fear and Faith Together
Fear and Faith Together
Whoever said you can’t have faith when facing fear was wrong. At least, in my personal experience, they were. These past two weeks I’ve…
Mindy F.
Aug 16, 2017
Digging Into the Darkness
Digging Into the Darkness
This past week I’ve been digging into the darkness. And no, I’m not talking about the eclipse that happened Monday, even though it did help…
Mindy F.
Aug 23, 2017
Time For A Mental Bulldozing
Time For A Mental Bulldozing
It’s time for a mental bulldozing. I’ve felt myself spiraling out of control these past few months, but had no idea how to stop it…
Mindy F.
Sep 22, 2017
The Life/ Death/ Life Cycle
The Life/ Death/ Life Cycle
I came upon the idea for this post while walking through a cemetery. I know, kind of morbid, right? But really, is it? When you think about…
Mindy F.
Oct 4, 2017
Breaking The Cycle
Breaking The Cycle
This past week has been a sort of hell for me. As an Adult Child Of an Alcoholic, I have many wounds from childhood that have not healed…
Mindy F.
Oct 11, 2017
I’m Sober, But Not Immune
I’m Sober, But Not Immune
A Week In-Review
Mindy F.
Oct 20, 2017
When Life Gets Hectic, It’s Time To Hit Pause
When Life Gets Hectic, It’s Time To Hit Pause
These past few weeks have felt overwhelming. I’ve found myself feeling out of control. And, I’m not going to lie, the thought of a drink…
Mindy F.
Nov 8, 2017
Instant Gratification
Instant Gratification
I often fall victim to instant gratification. I want what I want, and I want it now. When I first got sober, I wanted to be better…
Mindy F.
Aug 19, 2016
It Is (Not) The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year
It Is (Not) The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year
I feel I must be transparent with my blog post today and say, this is not the most wonderful time of year for me. I hate this time of year…
Mindy F.
Dec 20, 2017
Walking Through Fire — What 2017 Has Meant To Me
Walking Through Fire — What 2017 Has Meant To Me
Tomorrow night, at midnight, the year 2017 will come to a close. This week I’ve been reflecting back on this year, and what it has brought…
Mindy F.
Dec 30, 2017
Drinking Dreams: A Blessing and A Curse
Drinking Dreams: A Blessing and A Curse
Two nights ago, I had a drinking dream. This one really shook me up because it felt so real, and because I hardly ever remember my dreams…
Mindy F.
Jan 10, 2018
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