5 Tantric Masturbation Mistakes to Avoid
Expert advice to help you get the most out of the experience
Although we may generally think of masturbation as a quick way to get off and move on with our day, tantric masturbation is an approach to self-service that is the polar opposite, focusing on slow exploration that can heighten the experience and make orgasm much more intense. Tantric masturbation can take a while to get used to, so I spoke to four sex and relationship experts who warned about the common mistakes we should avoid.
Focusing on a Goal
While arousal and orgasm are a wonderful part of tantric masturbation, they are not necessarily required. Try to avoid your habitual or usual ways of doing things — don’t just go for the familiar level of arousal. Explore how different sensations, touch, and movement create different flavors of arousal.
-Libby Sheppard, Intimacy Coach and Pleasure Educator
“Try to watch steamy films, fantasize, and wear a sexy outfit.” — Prismila De Guzman Kristensen
Judging Yourself
Remember, you have the ability to create a safe space for yourself. Try not to judge or put thoughts in your head that something…
