Quickie: When Should You Bring a Sex Toy Into Your Relationship?

Survey shows when people are most likely to introduce devices into their sex lives

Kiki Wellington
Sex…With a Side of Quirk

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People love their sex toys. They also love having sex with their partner. But how much room is there for you to enjoy both in the bedroom?

It would seem that there wouldn’t be much. One common masturbation myth people believe is that if they diddle themselves, or if their partner does, they will ruin the sex they share as a couple. Although this isn’t true, it can put a damper on people’s willingness to treat themselves to self-service.

Luckily, myths like these have not actually affected people’s willingness to introduce sex toys into their sex play, so they can enjoy the best of both worlds in the bedroom. According to a survey of over 1,000 people conducted by Bespoke Surgical, 89.2 percent are receptive to having a toy introduced into their sex lives. In fact, over 30 percent of survey participants said they not only welcome the use of sex toys with their partner, they actually prefer to have sex with both their partner and a toy at the same time.

And when is the best time to make a request to introduce a sex toy into the bedroom?

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