“He’s Not a Bad Guy” Doesn’t Absolve Him of His Bad Actions, Tho

my complicated feels at this moment…

Another Day, Another Man Fails to Live Up to Expectations We Shouldn’t Have Had in the First Place?

I do not trust 99% of men.

Every single one I’ve let close to me has demonstrated a blatant or unintentional disregard for womanhood…

The Audacity of Being an Exceptional Woman

(in a world where you’re only supposed to say you are but not actually dare to be)

News Notes: Why the United Incident is Infuriating

I’m sitting at a cafe and some guy just passed by wearing a shirt that says, “NOT TODAY”…which aptly describes exactly when I will let United’s fuckery [read: blatant lack of human decency] slide.

How to Self-Care When Activism is Both Self-Care and Traumatizing

It’s one of those nights when a dully throbbing, fickle and irrational loneliness overcomes me, stubborn in its desire only to be satiated by having a series of nonexistent dependent events occur in interaction with a…

2017 for me (as me) & 2017 for me (as an American)

a love ethic for changing the world

This reflection/these notes are adapted from a post I drafted when challenged to reflect on 2017 and to share 2018 goals as an admin in a Facebook group that…

For me conference planning is about reducing points of uncertainty

Notes on Conference Planning

• Cannot predict everything but the more you plan and predict event less stressful
• Reduce number of scenarios to have…