Suzanne Falter

How I Learned to Relax and Stop Being a Perfectionist

How DO You Actually Love Yourself Again?

For me, this question has burned for years. One to which I want fast and easy answers…

How I Learned to Take Exquisite Care of Myself

What I Learned from the Destruction of My Sanctuary

Loss is eternal, just like losing socks in the dryer and getting stuck in traffic. Sooner or later, it’s going to happen.

Healing Grief With a Memorial on Wheels

In the last four years, I have learned a lot about how to process grief.

You know grief.

It’s that terrible, black sadness after loss that consumes us when we let it. It’s also the reason so many of us drink…

A Pep Talk For Anyone Who Needs to Let Go

Question: what do you long for, dear friend?

The Gritty, Beautiful Process of Becoming Yourself

These days we seem to be generally all about becoming ‘something’ — especially as the year begins. We want to be thinner, richer, sexier, bolder, more productive yet more relaxed, more spiritual …. hell, even bustier.

On Being Alone in Paris and Finding My Way

There is a certain vulnerability that comes with travel that can bring you to your…

The Value of an Excruciating Relationship

We choose the role of victim because we know it intimately.

Once, for sixteen months, I marched straight into the desert but somehow couldn’t extricate myself.