Experiencing Sub-Drop

You don’t have to be kinky to experience sub-drop. It can happen to anyone after…

Reflections of a Service Submissive

Thoughts on service-oriented submission and what people assume…

Too Soon to Be In Love

Why do we worry about whether or not it’s too soon to say “I love you” in new…

Forgive My Ignorance

Sometimes, you can’t assume a “universal” code is magically understood by…

Who’s Your Chatelaine?

Are you or your partner the general manager of your household?

Unconscious Gender Bias in Heterosexual Romance Novels

Why Dating Is Dumb

“They’re hot. Swipe right.” Does not a relationship make.

Victoria Feminae Progressa

(Having Advanced Victory of Women) An essay on the feminist movement in…

On Sexual Objectification

Let’s talk about sexual objectification.

Labels Lead to Assumptions

Labels can create tribes, among individuals who identify with the same…