Random Musings

10 Most Annoying People You Will Meet In A Kenyan Office

A colleague once grabbed my butt in 2014. I was livid. When I confronted him, he downplayed it telling me to calm down, it was just a harmless ‘spank’. Like wtf, you grab someone’s butt and then tell them to calm down? As always…

Why Valentine’s Day 2017 Will Find You Single Again

Girls, don’t dump us because you got him

I’m grieving because I lost a good friend…..a girl I treasured. And before you start with the condolences, she didn’t die, she just got a boyfriend. The last time I saw her was when her relationship was a month old. She is quiet on WhatsApp groups, never…

Kendi Ashitiva’s Dose Of Reality On Healthy Relationships

I was browsing through Facebook yesterday when I came across these 7 tips from Kendi Ashitiva about what a healthy relationship or marriage should be and I just had to share!

Stop oversharing information about your partner

Ladies, put your hand up if you are well over the age of 20 and you have never described in detail a sexual escapade with an ex boyfriend or your current lover to your close friends. If your hand went up, then we know you are lying because women…

First Hiking Adventure — Elephant Hill

Life is brought down to the basics: if you are warm, regular, healthy, not thirsty or hungry, then you are not on a mountain. Climbing at altitude is like hitting your head against a brick wall — it’s great when you stop — Chris Darwin.

Basic makeup mistakes Kenyan women make

I n August of 2015, an Algerian man sued his bride for damages after he saw her without makeup, a day after their wedding. According to the man, the woman had masked her flaws so much with makeup that he considered it fraud.

If you are the conquest he is boasting about…

A friend from my former office lets call her Faith recently called me in tears…

Would you marry you? Time for self-reflection

I was recently reading a book titled Would You Marry You by Ph.D James C. Wadley. James describes it as a clever, peculiar, and introspective book about a lifetime commitment to oneself. The title of the book is what got me really intrigued. I began…

Girls, we cannot all be fashion bloggers

I was recently browsing one of the top fashion and lifestyle blogs in Kenya when I came across a post of the writer requesting other blogs doing the same thing to post links for her to check out. Curious me decided to also use this opportunity to discover any…