Let's Talk About the Good Stuff

Living in faith is a habit, and, like any habit, it takes courage and…

Love Is Crucial, But It’s Not All You Need

Love is work, but it shouldn’t feel like a never ending…

Welcome to My Insides

Hi! My name’s Aliantha. I write about moving out of a life dictated by fear, and into a life guided by honesty, action, gratitude, and recognizing that we always have a choice.

It’s been one helluva year, but this year has ended up being the catalyst for a huge…

On Dating

I am single. Not something I expected to say, or write, or experience again — ever. And yet here I am. I haven’t been on a first, first date…

Your Dirty Laundry Probably Isn’t that Dirty, and it’s Definitely Not Unique

My boyfriend doesn’t understand how I can talk so openly about my near death experiences. How my girlfriends in recovery and I can laugh about dark, sometimes terrifying, or seemingly unspeakable…

Living With An Invisible Disability

I often feel isolated afraid and lonely. Whether it’s a…

All The S%#t I Tell Myself I’m Not Supposed To Say, Or Feel, Or Even Think

I didn’t fit into his frame

And he didn’t quite fill mine

Which leaves me plenty of room to blame

The Wartime Tactics of Ego

I’ve spent most of my life trying to prove my worth.

Sometimes It’s As Simple As Saying Thank You And Shutting Up

I was just called an ASSHOLE by a couple of punk kids!!! The worst part is, they weren’t even rude or immature about it. The second worst part is, I was going out of my way to act like anything but an asshole. Here’s what…

How To Say Yes Without Becoming A Yes-Man

Last weekend I got onstage, in front of a crowd, and did sketch comedy! I’ve never thought about doing sketch…