Unexpected Leadership

Applicable insights, frameworks, and tools for those new to managing others

Oct 13, 2018

Say Yes to Less

Today, I’m going to give you a challenge. But before that, I want you to think about all the projects you and your team have on your plate. Take a few seconds to jot down a list if it’s helpful.

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Oct 9, 2018

The Radical Candor framework has two axes: Challenge Directly and Care Personally.

Kim Scott’s Guide to Radical Candor

Near the start of Radical Candor, Kim Scott writes that “Bosses guide a team to achieve results.”…

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Oct 9, 2018

A comic titled "A Daily Conundrum." An employee asks their manager, "Hey boss, what do you think about [thing you totally have an answer for." As a manager, you want to say: "Well that's easy. Let's just do A, B, and C." But you should say: "I don't know, what do you think?"

“I Don’t Know, What Do You Think?”

As a manager, I’m guessing your reports come to you with all sorts of questions. How should I…

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Sep 12, 2018

The It, The We, and The I

Over the years, I’ve experimented with several ways to give me space to reflect on my work as a manager. The goal has been to create a cadence for developing self-awareness of my leadership patterns and performance. Today, this primarily takes the form of a Clarity Break, but every…

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Aug 19, 2018

The Parroting Technique

Does your team hear what you’re saying?

Great managers communicate all the time. Often, this communication happens through casual conversations, so it’s important to gauge how a verbal directive is received in the moment.

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Aug 19, 2018

Frederick Taylor and the Science of Management

The lasting legacy of the management pioneer

Like any human tool, management is an invention. In the late 1800s, Frederick Taylor was working at Midvale Steel Works in Philadelphia, where he…

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Aug 6, 2018

The High Standards of Jeff Bezos

Every year since 1997, Jeff Bezos has penned an annual letter to shareholders that provides a glimpse into the leadership stylings of the Amazon CEO. This year, the letter turned to the subject of high standards, which Bezos says have been instrumental to Amazon’s success.

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Aug 6, 2018

Get to Know Your Report’s Life Story

I’ve been humbled again and again by the simple fact that we bring our whole selves to work. A rough morning commute leaves you on edge. A catch-up call with a friend has you running high on life. A tough family situation saps focus and creativity. Joy or…