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The Cheated-On
The Cheated-On
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What I Learned From Being Cheated On

What I Learned From Being Cheated On

5 truths I’m passing on to you, dear reader
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Finn Lang
If Your Spouse Wants Out, Do This ….

If Your Spouse Wants Out, Do This ….

Avoiding mistakes in a marriage crisis makes a huge difference.
Go to the profile of Becky Whetstone, Ph.D.
Becky Whetstone, Ph.D.
Navigating Desperation in the Midst of Affair Recovery

Navigating Desperation in the Midst of Affair Recovery

Understanding the Depths of Desperation
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
Small Town, Big Scandal: Overcoming Affairs Where Everyone Knows Your Name

Small Town, Big Scandal: Overcoming Affairs Where Everyone Knows Your Name

Healing in the Aftermath of Small-Town Infidelity
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
5 Ways I Set the Stage For My Spouse’s Cheating

5 Ways I Set the Stage For My Spouse’s Cheating

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Mitzi Bockmann
Why Am I Crying for My Lost Husband?

Why Am I Crying for My Lost Husband?

I thought the tears would be for me.
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Martha Manning, Ph.D.
Why Does A Cheater Choose The Lover That They Do?

Why Does A Cheater Choose The Lover That They Do?

Unveiling Hidden Needs in Relationships
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
Beyond Blame and Shame: A Compassionate Approach to Healing After an Affair

Beyond Blame and Shame: A Compassionate Approach to Healing After an Affair

Navigating the Path to Affair Recovery with Empathy and Understanding
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
Married to a Cheater — Why Did I Stay So Long?

Married to a Cheater — Why Did I Stay So Long?

The Way It Happened To Me
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Ellen A
Can Infidelity Be A Cry For Help?

Can Infidelity Be A Cry For Help?

Understanding the Unspoken Pleas Behind Betrayal
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
How You Handle the Affair Matters

How You Handle the Affair Matters

Building Resilience and Healing After an Affair
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
How to Know When It’s Not a Genuine Apology

How to Know When It’s Not a Genuine Apology

It’s normal to disagree in relationships — but how you make up is the best way to see if they truly respect you.
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Michelle Love
The Day I Discovered My Wife Was Cheating

The Day I Discovered My Wife Was Cheating

How Good Friday Marked the Death of My Marriage
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Much Reassembly Required
I’m Thankful for My Wounds

I’m Thankful for My Wounds

They remind me that I’m strong.
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Heavenlyevil
What You Need To Know About Surviving Long Term Infidelity

What You Need To Know About Surviving Long Term Infidelity

Have you recently discovered that your partner has been having an affair for years and are you wondering if surviving long term infidelity…
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Mitzi Bockmann
I Live in a Sexless Marriage

I Live in a Sexless Marriage

Yes, they exist.
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H
9 Myths About Infidelity That Keep You Stuck in Your Suffering

9 Myths About Infidelity That Keep You Stuck in Your Suffering

Unravel the truth behind infidelity myths and discover the real complexities of affair dynamics.
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
A Letter to the Woman I Betrayed

A Letter to the Woman I Betrayed

I had an affair with your husband. How cliché. Yet, I wonder what you’re like. When all the fear and the walls are stripped away — and all…
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Another Millennial Woman
Are You One of the Women Who Can Tell Me About My Husband?

Are You One of the Women Who Can Tell Me About My Husband?

There are some women who have gotten to see a side of my husband that I have not.
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Sarah Clover
Betrayal as Abuse: The Hidden Pain of Affairs

Betrayal as Abuse: The Hidden Pain of Affairs

Unmasking the Trauma and Deception in Infidelity
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
7 Key Signs You’re Being Used: How to Protect Yourself from Heartbreak and Betrayal

7 Key Signs You’re Being Used: How to Protect Yourself from Heartbreak and Betrayal

In modern dating, it’s important to remember the wise words, “Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their…
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Jack Chapter 2
My Ex-husband Has Moved in with Me — Isn’t Life Something?

My Ex-husband Has Moved in with Me — Isn’t Life Something?

Change keeps creeping up and biting me in the ass
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Martha Manning, Ph.D.
I Never Believed I Could Fall in Love with My Ex-Husband’s Dog

I Never Believed I Could Fall in Love with My Ex-Husband’s Dog

Attachment transcends marital status and respiratory distress
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Martha Manning, Ph.D.
Understanding the Root Problem Behind an Affair

Understanding the Root Problem Behind an Affair

Peeling Back the Layers
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Jeff Murrah, LPC, LCDC, CMNCS
Why Shaming an Adulterer Doesn’t Work

Why Shaming an Adulterer Doesn’t Work

“The part who shames me means well for me, the part who shames you means well for me.” Martha Sweezy, PhD
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Tullia
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