Being A Man Who Doesn’t Want Sex

I’ve turned down sex since I was sixteen years old. Now I’m forty.

Ben’s Guide to Better Sex Through Reading and Writing Erotica Part Two

Exploring Your Turn-ons in…

Write Till Your Hard Chapter 1: Sexual Experiences

Write Till You’re Hard Part Seven

Dialog: What I talk about when I talk about fucking…

Ben’s Guide to Better Sex Through Reading and Writing Erotica Part Three:

Write that shit down

The Mess

“I’m not monogamous,” sounds different to me than, “oh yeah, we’re polyamorous” — with a long ‘o’ and a rolling ‘l’ like David Duchovny…

When Power in The Bedroom Isn’t What We Think It Is: The Switch Life

Write Till You’re Hard Part Six

Fetish: Light of my life, fire of my dick.

Write Till You’re Hard Chapter 3: Daddies, Littles, and Pig Sluts

How to write compelling characters…