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Discovering Polyamory

Helping you take those first steps on to the journey to understanding ethical non-monogamy.

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

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Green Flags in Polyamory: Actively Learning About Relationships

Society doesn’t teach us how to build…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

Three people sitting in a living room, hanging out and having drinks. Two of them are on the sofa, focused on each other, making physical contact, and clearly flirting. The third is watching them from a separate chair, from his expression he is happy seeing the other two getting on.

What is Compersion?

Compersion is more than just the opposite of jealousy. It’s about reclaiming your…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

A paperback copy of “polywise: a deeper dive into navigating open relationships” by Jessica Fern with David Cooley. The book has a blue cover, and is resting on a wooden table with a folded blue tablecloth and a cup of coffee.

Review: “polywise: A Deeper Dive in Navigating Open Relationships” by Jessica Fern with David Cooley

Stephanie Parry in Discovering Polyamory

Are We Really Here to Love Only One Person?

Though monogamy is the cultural norm, are we naturally…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

Three adults sitting around the same table in a bar, clicking their drinks together with large smiles on their faces. They are clearly having a great time together.

The Question Needed To Begin A Healthy Polyamorous Relationship

How to express and understand what you…

Stephanie Parry in Discovering Polyamory

When I Thought Sex With Someone New Would Heal My Broken Heart

The story of an almost-rebound affair…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

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Green Flags in Polyamory: Being Happy Being Alone

Polyamory isn’t about using people to hide from…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

An Asian couple sitting on a sofa, clearly in the middle of a difficult discussion. The man has his hand raised, trying to argue his point, while the woman has her hands over her ears, trying not to listen to what he is saying.

What Do I Do if My Partner Asks for an Open Relationship

Wanting to explore polyamory is not a sign…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

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What do you do When Your Partner Goes Through a Breakup?

Things are going to change, but you have to…

Thomas H. Brand in Discovering Polyamory

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How to Handle Breakups in Polyamory

Being polyamorous doesn’t mean breakups don’t hurt (or that…

Discovering Polyamory

Helping you take those first steps on to the journey to understanding ethical non-monogamy.

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