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Helping you take those first steps on to the journey to understanding ethical non-monogamy.
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Green Flags in Polyamory: Active Communication
Green Flags in Polyamory: Active Communication
We are taught how to talk but not how to actively communicate, and without active communication, polyamory is infinitely harder
Tom Brand
Jul 28
Why Do We All Hate Unicorn Hunters?
Why Do We All Hate Unicorn Hunters?
What are Unicorn Hunters, why do they have such a bad reputation, and why might they not deserve it?
Tom Brand
Jul 14
Review: “Is Monogamy Dead?” by Rosie Wilby
Review: “Is Monogamy Dead?” by Rosie Wilby
Rosie Wilby is not an academic or an expert on relationships. She’s not even polyamorous. But does that mean that Is Monogamy Dead? is not…
Tom Brand
Jun 30
Green Flags in Polyamory: Actively Learning About Relationships
Green Flags in Polyamory: Actively Learning About Relationships
Society doesn’t teach us how to build healthy relationships, so look out for people who seek to learn by themselves
Tom Brand
Jun 23
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5 Benefits Of Polyamory (That You Didn’t Expect)
5 Benefits Of Polyamory (That You Didn’t Expect)
Sometimes the best things in life are unanticipated
Tom Brand
May 4, 2021
When Polyamory Is Non-Sexual
When Polyamory Is Non-Sexual
Some poly relationships aren’t about physical intimacy at all
Elle Beau ❇︎
Aug 28, 2021
7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Begin Polyamory
7 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Begin Polyamory
It’s time to prepare yourself to step into the unknown.
Tom Brand
Jul 2, 2021
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Are We Really Here to Love Only One Person?
Are We Really Here to Love Only One Person?
Though monogamy is the cultural norm, are we naturally more non-monogamous
Stephanie Parry
May 4
What is Compersion?
What is Compersion?
Compersion is more than just the opposite of jealousy. It’s about reclaiming your individuality within your relationship
Tom Brand
May 29
Is A Veto Ethical in a Polyamorous Relationship?
Is A Veto Ethical in a Polyamorous Relationship?
A veto is about control and power, while autonomy and sovereignty are at the foundation of an ethical relationship
Stephanie Parry
Jul 25, 2023
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