You’re not the first person in your lineage to be queer

Comforting words to read today

“i saw the words “ur not the first person in your lineage to be queer” and it’s rocking me to my core. how many generations down the line did one of my…

So I Launched My Very First Notion Template for Medium Writers!

Learn how you can get a free copy here

Why The Advice “Stop Blaming Your Parents For Who You Are Now” Falls Flat

To flatten the process as “blaming your parents” is often a simplification of what trauma looks like

Witnessing Conflicts on Medium

Not one, but two… maybe three

witnessing conflicts is an experience after all / sometimes actively watching as you get recruited into the sidelines / named / mentioned / involved / even though you have never signed up to be

Here’s What’s Changing (For Now)

You’ll notice a shift, over the next few months.

You may notice a shift in the type(s) of things I’ll be writing over the next few months.

It Wasn’t Just Childhood Nostalgia That Made This Food Taste Better

What was the secret? You’ll find…

When words can carry so much yet be twisted to mean so little

What Does It Even Mean To Write What You…

If Medium Implemented These Two Features I’d Never Leave This Platform

The two biggest reasons why I…

My Top 3 Deepest Fears of Writing

Can you relate?

Part of overcoming fears is naming them, and then listening in to see which parts seem reasonable, which parts to discard because they are incorrect gut judgments.

Flop Pieces from August?

Come help me give these pieces some love ft. updates!