What to say to a fat woman you’re dating

There are a lot of things you say to the people you’re dating. “I like you.” “I love you.” “What are you doing this weekend?” “You’re so hot!” “Want to go on a trip?” “Text me when you get home.” “You look amazing!” “I love it when you do that!”

Wanting a Baby and Being Fat

I’ve been having severe baby cravings since April this year. Perhaps it’s because I turned 41 and the whole body clock thing is hitting me; perhaps it’s because I’m in love with an amazing man — I really don’t know what the trigger is but I have been craving a bay-bay!!! Making…

Conditioning… and it’s not cool!!!

“Can she even climb stairs? In a year or two her knees will give way!”

The war against obesity

Today I tell you a story (ok 2) of healthcare.

I love you, fat face

Between the video and my post on Friday, y’all know I’m tryna take some self portraits these days. I can’t say I made it…

Fat is a word. Use it.

Resigning from adulthood

I would like to turn in my adult card please, thank you. Seriously. I am done! It’s one big racket! Don’t fall for it!

All your life, being an adult is seen as the ultimate goal. Grownups know what they’re doing, they have control of shit like the TV and…

If you do not cut me, I will still bleed

It’s been a bit of a week! Things have been super busy — all in a good way — but just to fuck with me, I’ve had a migraine aura for most of it. I’ve had migraines most of my life. They were very bad when I was kid, and they got better for a long time, with…

When you don’t trust yourself

You can’t do anything.

This is really the biggest lesson I have learned in (almost) 40 years.

I tend to come off as someone who is supremely confident — which I am about many things, but that confidence was earned with…

Love is a many-splendoured work in progress…

If you are fat, it is a given that you have experienced rejection. And not just the “if you are human, you have experienced rejection” variety , but an advanced level. And not just from those closest to you — the parents and family and friends and…