The Gentleman’s Guide to Apologizing for Mansplaining

Particular etiquette for a particular mistake

Being the Fat Man in the Yoga Class

Surviving the gauntlet of self-image and fear

You Don’t Have to Be Useful

I don’t normally call out my fellow personal development bloggers, but yesterday I read a post so…

Captain America: Civil War as Allegory for Consent Issues

Self-Sabotage and Love

One of the themes that has always fascinated me is the idea of “self-sabotage”. Everyone has done it to some extent…

Strategies to Stop the Shame Spiral

A friend of mine who is a shining example of someone who Does the Work to reflect on and improve…

The Unintentional Gaslighting of the Soul

One of the few good things to come out of this particular year is a greater awareness…

The State of the Habit

I remember the good old days when I felt that my voice wasn’t needed. There were plenty of people who were saying…

Sometimes You’re the Bad Guy

Interesting thing happened to me on twitter.

Why Compassion Won’t Work for You

“You’re writing about love!” he said. “I saw this video from the School of Life about ‘Why Polyamory…