It doesn’t matter what she’s wearing

or doing.

There are two types of people:

People who strongly believe that when a woman gets sexually assaulted or raped, she contributed to it in some way, by wearing (or doing) something.

Of Generalizations and Men: by a Retired General of the Not All Men Army

“Whatever makes you uncomfortable is your biggest opportunity for growth.” — Bryant McGill

I don’t remember what the context was the first time I read the phrase “Men are scum.”…

What does “Men hate women” mean?

“Men hate women”

Feminists say it pretty often and they genuinely believe it to be true. However, most men vehemently disagree.

How can he hate women? He thinks about the women in his life: his sisters, his…

Falz vs Transactional Sex…but not really

Sex work has not always been touted as the bane of human society, ancient Greek and Roman societies did not treat sex work with a heavy hand and sex workers were not vilified as they have been in the modern era. With the domination of the world by the…

Trading Places

“There ain’t a white man in this room that will trade places with me. None of you. None of you would change places with me. And I’m rich” — Chris Rock, Bigger & Blacker.

Let us be frank, Nigerian men go through some shit. SARS will see a well dressed young guy with new phones…

Gentlemen, we suck at sex

Honestly, before I started writing this article, I don’t think I really understood the extent to which women have…

Problematic – I was & I am

Aren’t we all?

Was

I, like most people who were raised in Nigeria, held traditional & problematic views when I was younger.

A Church that Doesn’t Love Women

“Woman was merely man’s helpmate, a function which pertains to her…

Patriarchy 101

What do we mean when we speak of the patriarchy?

The Love of Women.

I love women.

But this isn’t about the romantic × sexual love. I’m not here to talk about how soft they are, how much I like booty, their voices, etc.

I’m talking about a less dramatic kind of love, one that shouldn’t even be lauded or…