Quickie: Do You Have Sexual Fantasies You Want to Explore in the New Year?
Expert tips on how to get your partner to ride your sex train
As 2024 begins, you’re probably thinking about what you want to do this year — and perhaps part of that is considering erotic New Year’s resolutions you’d like to incorporate into your sex life. Of course, the only way to accomplish this is to get your partner on board with them.
But how can you do it effectively?
In a video on Adam & Eve’s YouTube channel, relationship expert Dr. Jenni Skyler gives suggestions on how we can ask our partner to try something new in the bedroom. First and foremost, to ensure we get the best reception to our sexual suggestions, we should put in the order when we’re not in the heat of battle. Instead, approach the menu items you’re interested in outside of the bedroom, such as when you’re at the dinner table or walking the dog.
“I have a few things that I’ve been kicking around and this is what they look like.”
However, she stresses the importance of not just springing your sexual requests on your partner out of the blue.
“Invite the conversation first,” Skyler said. “Say, ‘Hey, I’d love to talk about…