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Confidence as a relationship superpower

Confidence as a relationship superpower

Confidence gave me a much needed ego. Greater confidence let helped set it aside.

Feb 6, 2019

Why I Stopped Using “Masculine” and “Feminine” (and What I Say Instead)

Why I Stopped Using “Masculine” and “Feminine” (and What I Say Inst...

In 2015 we set out to redefine healthy masculinity. Then I realized the word had problems that wouldn’t be resolved by a new definition.

Nov 12, 2018

Helping a guy understand “worship” and “surrender”

Helping a guy understand “worship” and “surrender”

In which I attempt to translate a woman's Letter to Men to a guy who wants to understand

Jun 20, 2018

The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

(Hint: it’s similar to penis with one tiny difference.)

Apr 10, 2018

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

For a different reason than you might think.

Apr 6, 2018

My Graduation from Nice Guy Misogyny

My Graduation from Nice Guy Misogyny

(My changing definition of respecting women)

Nov 5, 2017

It’s 2017 and it’s still possible for a woman to be TOO capable to be considered a good mate. WTF!

It’s 2017 and it’s still possible for a woman to be TOO capable to ...

THE PROBLEM is we’re still stuck with our grandparents’ sensibilities about how romantic relationships are supposed to work.

Oct 19, 2017

Emotional outsourcing doesn’t work in the long run, fellas.

Emotional outsourcing doesn’t work in the long run, fellas.

He’s a producer by nature. Results-oriented, focused, stoic or even brooding at times. She’s loving and nurturing by nature. She loves him…

Jun 20, 2017

How I Became a More Confident Lover and Partner

How I Became a More Confident Lover and Partner

It starts with taking positive steps for oneself

Oct 8, 2016

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