On Finding the capacity to love, again.

Last year, my world shattered. I fell out of love. I thought the walls of my Charlottesville apartment were quickly closing in on me. Becoming that small, that damaged, is not a pain I wish upon anyone. However, the love that precedes being broken feigns a…

79 Days

35. No this number is not some shining mark of sobriety; that goal would be far more difficult to attain than my current quest. I have not kissed another human being, male or female in 35 days. Sexuality is remarkably fluid when you open yourself up to this possibility. For most people this paltry form of…

The Drive

Last summer I worked on a dude ranch in the Middle of Nowhere, Wyoming.

Finding gratitude

On Thanksgiving you are often asked to acknowledge what you are grateful for- whether it be at school, work, home or your local…

More than a sweet treat

Apple pie is pretty delicious on its own, but wrapped up in this particular dessert are unexpected changes…

People are inherently good

The day that made this belief a reality 

Dear you are just not that into me,

an open letter to twenty-something year old straight males

I am going to be a sister.

Umm What? I knew my dad and step-mom wanted to have a child. I have known this for three years, but for whatever…

Eventually I want to

another bucket list