Controversial Book Probes the Mystery of Sex to Sound an Urgent Alarm

Having imagined the outer limits of sex in his SECRET SEX LIFE OF ANGELS fantasy series, I. J. Weinstock’s new nonfiction book, OUR SECRET SEX LIFE: The Key to Humanity’s Destiny, reveals the hidden connections between sex, society, and survival.

I. J. Weinstock
4 min readJul 13, 2023

(Author’s Note: A year ago, I distributed this Press Release about my new book to thousands of media outlets. There was no response. In the year since, I’ve published over a dozen articles about sex and society. On this 1-year anniversary, I’m re-publishing the Press Release here on Medium since its message is just as relevant today as it was a year ago. It’s an important message and deserves media coverage.)

NEW YORK, July 2022/23 — Ask I. J. Weinstock why he’s written so many books about sex, and he’ll offer this provocative reply: “It’s not just about sex, it’s about survival! Maybe we’re fucking up the world because our fucking is fucked up.”

In his controversial new book, he writes, “sex is much more than the physical act. It defines our humanity and shapes our society.”

His book describes how humans are evolutionary exceptions, not only because of their big brains but because they liberated sex from reproduction and, unlike other mammals, have sex all the time. No longer instinctual in humans, evolution had to develop more sophisticated means of communication between the sexes “to negotiate the who, how, where, and when of this uniquely human hyper-sexual reproduction. The need to choreograph a new kind of ‘mating dance’ evolved into speech, complex language, and ultimately civilization.”

Weinstock’s Theory of Sexual Relativity and Human Destiny proposes that the “story” we tell ourselves about sex determines the kind of civilization in which we live. “How we conceive of, feel about, and engage in sex,” he explains, “shapes relations between men and women, dictates the dynamics of family, and ultimately influences the values and structures of society. In tech terms, our SEX OS is the source code for society.”

But, according to Weinstock, “Our SEX OS has been ‘hacked’ by cultural and religious ‘viruses’ with catastrophic consequences!” He asks us to consider the possibility that “our hacked SEX OS may be the source of the self-inflicted crises that threaten humanity, and that our ‘story’ about sex is leading us on a path toward self-destruction.”

The book poses some existential questions: “Has the collective trauma of sexual shame we’ve inherited over thousands of years driven us to commit the insanely self-destructive act of ‘poisoning our nest’ and destroying our world?”

Weinstock wrote OUR SECRET SEX LIFE not only to sound an alarm but to spark an urgent conversation. “It’s not just about sex: it’s about how our hacked SEX OS distorts relations between the sexes and makes us vulnerable to sexual manipulation for political gain, and why women’s reproductive freedom is necessary for a healthy society.”

His book makes this plea — “We’re in the midst of a cultural upheaval about women, men, gender, and sex. We need to understand the sexual undercurrents that affect our social and political life and, ultimately, our future. With humanity facing a gathering storm of self-inflicted, existential catastrophes, it’s crucial that we re-write our ‘story’ and upgrade our hacked SEX OS. Not just for personal satisfaction or better sex lives, but for society’s health and civilization’s survival.”

The SECRET SEX LIFE books

In his “groundbreaking” and “paradigm-shifting” SECRET SEX LIFE OF ANGELS fantasy series, I. J. Weinstock has explored the outer limits of that mystery we call “sex” in a way few have ever done.

His new nonfiction book, OUR SECRET SEX LIFE: The Key to Humanity’s Destiny, reveals the secrets we all carry between our legs and presents his revolutionary theory of sex and society.

The SECRET SEX LIFE books are an unprecedented publishing event bound to spark conversation and controversy.

OUR SECRET SEX LIFE: The Key to Humanity’s Destiny (DreaMaster Books) is available on Amazon.

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I. J. Weinstock’s recent articles on sex and society include:

— “Questioning Sex #5: Is Our Sexual Shame to Blame for How We Can Be Manipulated for Political Gain?”

— “Questioning Sex #4: Is the Porn-ification of Puberty and Sex Ed a Ticking Time Bomb?”

— “Questioning Sex #3: If AI Poses an Existential Threat, Can Upgrading Our SEX OS Save Us From the Robots?”

— “Questioning Sex #2: Is a ‘Pussy’ By Any Other Name the Same?”

— “Questioning Sex #1: WTF Is It?”

— “Women’s Sexual Empowerment Can Save the World!”

— “Do Sex Traffickers (Like Jeffrey Epstein) and Mass Shooters Have in Common? And Why Should We Care?”

— “A Conversation with OpenAI’s ChatGPT About Artificial Intelligence & Sex”

— “A New ‘Theory of Relativity’ Could Shake Up the World Again. But This Time It’s About Sex!”

— “Ecstasy or Extinction

— “Is Sex the Missing Piece of the Puzzle?”

— “Did Jesus Have a Secret Sex Life?”

— “Abortion, Sex, and Survival — Women’s Reproductive Freedom is About More Than the Right-to-Chose, It’s Ultimately About Civilization’s Survival”

For more information: www.IJWeinstock.com

Contact: I. J. Weinstock
DreaMasterBooks@gmail.com

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