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Great sex involves exquisite pacing

Great sex involves exquisite pacing

The interplay between pleasure and desire, explained

Jun 25, 2018

Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Our use of technology hints at something surprising about men and women.

Mar 13, 2018

“Compromise” in relationship? Not exactly.

“Compromise” in relationship? Not exactly.

Lone rangers feel like they “need to compromise.” Relationships offer the promise of something better.

Jul 16

Mediocre sex is not an option.

Mediocre sex is not an option.

Long-term relationships are the ideal opportunity to have the best sex life you’ve ever had.

Jul 6, 2017

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

For a different reason than you might think.

Apr 6, 2018

Confidence as a relationship superpower

Confidence as a relationship superpower

Confidence gave me a much needed ego. Greater confidence let helped set it aside.

Feb 6

For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

Perfect match… or deep connection?

Sep 29, 2016

3 Questions To Move Past Anger Quickly

3 Questions To Move Past Anger Quickly

Anger isn’t as dangerous as we think… or as useful. Here’s what you need to know to transition from emotional to effective.

Dec 26, 2018

A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

It starts with taking positive steps for oneself

Oct 8, 2016

The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

(Hint: it’s just like a penis, only completely different.)

Apr 10, 2018

Being monogamous with a non-monogamous partner

Being monogamous with a non-monogamous partner

It isn't a rule that couples have to have the same set of rules for each other. Here's an example of why, and how, it can work.

May 30, 2018

Working Monogamy

Working Monogamy

Don’t focus on monogamy. Focus on improving the relationship.

Sep 30, 2014

Your prospects for a great love life with your long-term partner

Your prospects for a great love life with your long-term partner

Does sex improve or decline in a committed relationship? What’s required to have a great love life long-term? Here’s an analogy…

Apr 29, 2018

Too Much Of A Good Thing — Jealousy Part 6

Too Much Of A Good Thing — Jealousy Part 6

Consider this: You did not set out to find a partner that literally no one is attracted to.

Jan 21, 2016

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