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Great sex involves exquisite pacing

Great sex involves exquisite pacing

The interplay between pleasure and desire, explained
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Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Why do women gravitate to vibrators (ie physical stimulation), and men gravitate to porn (ie other people having sex)?
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Mediocre sex is not an option.

Mediocre sex is not an option.

Long-term relationships are the ideal opportunity to have the best sex life you’ve ever had.
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Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

For a different reason than you might think.
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For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

Perfect match… or deep connection?
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The Path from Desire to Fulfillment

The Path from Desire to Fulfillment

It's a cycle. Here are some of the places we can get stuck along the way.
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A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

It starts with taking positive steps for oneself
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The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

In case you know someone who could use this information.
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On Open Relationships and the Exclusivity Slider

On Open Relationships and the Exclusivity Slider

If you want security in your relationship, you better understand the distinction between security and monogamy.
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Being monogamous with a non-monogamous partner

Being monogamous with a non-monogamous partner

It isn't a rule that couples have to have the same set of rules for each other. Here's an example of why, and how, it can work.
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"I want to be worshiped" / "I want to surrender"

"I want to be worshiped" / "I want to surrender"

In which I attempt to translate a woman's letter to men, to a guy who wants to understand
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My Graduation from Nice Guy Misogyny

My Graduation from Nice Guy Misogyny

(My changing definition of respecting women)
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Your prospects for a great love life with your long-term partner

Your prospects for a great love life with your long-term partner

One of the biggest misconceptions out there has to do with whether sex improves or declines in a committed relationship, and what it takes…
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Fucking is an advanced practice

Fucking is an advanced practice

In a recent Facebook Live I did on physical intimacy, I said “fucking is an advanced practice.” This comment drew a lot of questions.
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The Path from Acquiescence to Surrender

The Path from Acquiescence to Surrender

They look the same, but they’re opposites. An entire life journey separates one from the other.
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Insecurity — Jealousy Part 4

Insecurity — Jealousy Part 4

When you’re more likely to abandon you than your partner is.
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