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Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Our use of technology hints at something surprising about men and women.
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Great sex involves exquisite pacing

Great sex involves exquisite pacing

The interplay between pleasure and desire, explained
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Ken Blackman
“Compromise” in relationship? Not exactly.

“Compromise” in relationship? Not exactly.

Lone rangers feel like they “need to compromise.” Relationships offer the promise of something better.
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Mediocre sex is not an option.

Mediocre sex is not an option.

Long-term relationships are the ideal opportunity to have the best sex life you’ve ever had.
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Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

For a different reason than you might think.
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For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

Perfect match… or deep connection?
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Confidence as a relationship superpower

Confidence as a relationship superpower

Confidence gave me a much needed ego. Greater confidence let helped set it aside.
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3 Questions To Move Past Anger Quickly

3 Questions To Move Past Anger Quickly

Anger isn’t as dangerous as we think… or as useful. Here’s what you need to know to transition from emotional to effective.
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A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

It starts with taking positive steps for oneself
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The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

The simplest math of how to touch a clitoris

(Hint: it’s just like a penis, only completely different.)
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Skillful Passion (a lesson in fighting)

Skillful Passion (a lesson in fighting)

If you fight, fight like a pro.
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Working Monogamy

Working Monogamy

Don’t focus on monogamy. Focus on improving the relationship.
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Your prospects for a great love life with your long-term partner

Your prospects for a great love life with your long-term partner

Does sex improve or decline in a committed relationship? What’s required to have a great love life long-term? Here’s an analogy…
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Too Much Of A Good Thing — Jealousy Part 6

Too Much Of A Good Thing — Jealousy Part 6

Consider this: You did not set out to find a partner that literally no one is attracted to.
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