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Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Men want sex and women want love? Not exactly.

Our use of technology hints at something surprising about men and women.
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Great sex involves exquisite pacing

Great sex involves exquisite pacing

The interplay between pleasure and desire, explained
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3 Questions To Move Past Anger Quickly

3 Questions To Move Past Anger Quickly

Anger isn’t as dangerous as we think… or as useful. Here’s what you need to know to transition from emotional to effective.
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Mediocre sex is not an option.

Mediocre sex is not an option.

Long-term relationships are the ideal opportunity to have the best sex life you’ve ever had.
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On Open Relationships and the Exclusivity Slider

On Open Relationships and the Exclusivity Slider

If you want security in your relationship, you better understand the distinction between security and monogamy.
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Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

Why I outed my own lie to my girlfriend

For a different reason than you might think.
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For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

For Couples Who Love Each Other But Wonder If They’re Compatible

Perfect match… or deep connection?
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A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

A Grown Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident Lover & Partner.

It starts with taking positive steps for oneself
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Why The Word “Jealousy” Is Useless — Jealousy Part 1

Why The Word “Jealousy” Is Useless — Jealousy Part 1

We need something a bit more nuanced to get to root causes and effective resolutions.
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Possession/Ownership — Jealousy Part 5

Possession/Ownership — Jealousy Part 5

Underneath your need to own someone is your desire to be owned by them, and it’s terrifying.
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It’s 2017 and it’s still possible for a woman to be TOO capable to be considered a good mate. WTF!

It’s 2017 and it’s still possible for a woman to be TOO capable to ...

THE PROBLEM is we’re still stuck with our grandparents’ sensibilities about how romantic relationships are supposed to work.
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Powerful Woman Confident Man

Powerful Woman Confident Man

A sneak peak into what’s coming
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Envy/Desire — Jealousy Part 3

Envy/Desire — Jealousy Part 3

Relationship problems exacerbate jealousy. People getting everything they want tend to feel less jealous.
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Being monogamous with a non-monogamous partner

Being monogamous with a non-monogamous partner

It isn't a rule that couples have to have the same set of rules for each other. Here's an example of why, and how, it can work.
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Too Much Of A Good Thing — Jealousy Part 6

Too Much Of A Good Thing — Jealousy Part 6

Consider this: You did not set out to find a partner that literally no one is attracted to.
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