I would like to share these rituals for a drama free, beautiful positive way to break up from a…
In the past few months of dating different women, I’ve come to realize something that…
We make things really complicated in this world. I mean REALLY complicated. It’s drama, it’s secrets, it’s…
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Dear Nneoma,
The other day you came to me and asked for advice and it’s been five days since I…
Now when I say the words “attractive woman,” what comes to your mind first? Beautiful hair, perfect butt, nice boobs, sexy lips? You went physical on me, didn’t you? You thought of physical attraction first, rather than the other type…
When relationships fail, we often point the finger at the other person and blame them for being unloving, absent, disinterested, or controlling. However, if you can be honest and ask…
“So she just left without a word?”
“Bags and all.”
Just when I thought I was starting to move past all the emotions and my obsessive thoughts about you, suddenly, you burst into my mind.
The morning was as beautiful as it could be. The iridescent sun rays caressed the sandstone white and pristine blue clouds…
I think that’s what’s missing from this article. The context of the interaction is critical.
A woman walking along the sidewalk, minding her own business, whether she looks like she’s in a hurry or she looks like she’s taking a nice leisurely…
My fellow psychologist, Kresna Astari, told me that I shouldn’t invest in a man unless he’s done something…
~releasing the courageous creativity of the soul
Untying
This is me moving on.
This is me accepting the ache of missing you
By Tom Cardella
And then came Cancer….
We as humans jump at the chance to make ourselves better. All the while we have this nagging impression that we are not good enough. Dancing through the tulips and leaping over large lakes, I take a look at my life as a Wife, Mother, Mentor…
Volumen II. Experimento.
Como si de una película de Regreso al futuro se tratara me consigo un Delorean y un condensador de fluzo y decido volver al pasado…
Di awali pada pertengahan bulan November 2017 hingga Januari awal, liburan musim dinginku berjalan. Dapat dibilang pada liburan ini…
I like to sip coffee the same color as your eyesAs dark as it could beThat holds the entire world insideAnd…
We meet; we touch.Lips and tongues melt.Loins stir; lust leaps.
And from the wreckage, beauty breaks through. From the broken, the pieces of…
Happy full moon eclipse. Are you feeling it? PHEW I sure am. Amazing moment to drop deep into rest and…
Honestly I actualy want to add a whole set of adjectives to the title, the entirety of the following list: small, brave, sensible, lovable, adorable, strong and simply awesome. All of this adjectives are impossible to go unnoticed when…
“Enjoy yourself — that’s what your 20s are for. Your 30s are for learning the lessons. Your 40s are…
“It wasn’t because he lacked modern ideas, but because he was too rooted in a…
Sustained levels of stress, also known as anxiety.
I found myself questioning this yesterday, when i was talking to a guy, he told me how we have become so lazy to get…
I’ve been lost here recently in my grief and I didn’t know why. Together Dax and I figured out that Groundhog Day was a very special occasion in my family life with Shawn (RIP) and…
This is an excerpt of thought based on the book “Futureville” by Skye Jethani. It has become to be one of my favorite…
In Guatemala, far too many people have found themselves with no other option than to live on the dangerous streets.
A part of me wishes I could hound you till you let loose of me, and then gently make cuts in your flesh just to watch your blood ooze and season your wounds generously with the salt of my tears. Marinate you in the guilt of watching me plunge into the deep…
Past, present and future comprise the time, the most powerful asset in the world.
In just under two months, I’m getting married 🙌 💕
And while I’m beyond excited to be able to call Ed my husband, I have to admit that the wedding planning process has been quite stressful. There have been an abundance of decisions (and compromises) to make…
Našla svetlo, čo preniklo jej temnotu. Objavila Učiteľa, ktorý jej rád ukazoval krásy okolo. Naučil ju vážiť si samú seba a prijať…
Late at nights you stay awake thinking all the things you could have given to that one person who…
I am writing just my mind out. All the perspectives I have so far regarding love, marriage and falling in love. I don’t think so that falling in love is an easy task. You put so much energy into it. Whether it be your emotions, your time, your effort , even your money. Falling in love…
She sat across the room
Her eyes said “hello”
It is you who made me fall;Like you never cared at all.Your lips says you love me;But in your eyes its not what I see.
I don’t know who first invented the tags. I don’t even know how they work. All I know is that every time a child is born they do a test and…
As an individual do you know what being independent means? Have you ever had the feeling of being…
I love you now not foreverI’ll make you laugh now not wheneverI do my best for you now not howeverI love the you you’re now not whoeverI love everything you say now not whatever
Another expedition around the sun. Another ritual of focus and fun. It’s my birthday today + a lucky Super Blue Blood Moon lunar eclipse! I…
We were laying in bed one cold, winter morning. His right arm laid over my body while we laid nut to butt, literally, in an attempt to keep…
I think that as women, we are being taught about consent (when we’re being taught at all) in only one way : the consent that we choose to give or not. Because of the way power dynamics are often shaped, and this idea in our society that men want sex anyway and it’s just a matter of convincing women, two things are missing : 1) women aren’t expected…
“Niedersächsische Hochzeitssuppe” — “Lower Saxony Wedding Soup”. Should I worry that this is the first selection of the set-menu, hand-picked by my new boyfriend’s parents?
Yesterday, I misjudged the level of agitation a bottle of sparkling wine had suffered…
… Sentía una energía super fuerte corriendo por mi cuerpo, mi corazón se aceleraba aún más y más, nos besábamos y seguía sintiendo su barba, no quería que me soltara…
Here are three poems about love that look at different times: love’s beginnings, marital love, and love after loss. I hope…
I met her in my mind. It seemed like the safest place to meet. I climbed the earth…
January 20 — San Francisco
I noticed that I am getting constantly bombarded with anger, complaints and petty…
Saying goodbye is sometimes, impossible.
When two lives are beautifully intertwined, for better or worse, it’s not easy to tell where one of the pair begins and the other ends.
Her embrace was the first memory he’d reminisce the moment his light blue eyes would open up for a new day. He…
A guide to loving me
If you want to fall in love with me, there’s a few things I should tell you.
You need to know these things…trust me.
from OUR BEST LIFE TOGETHER (releasing March 6)
Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy. Then it was said among the nations, “The Lord has done great things for them.” Psalm 126:2
The smallness of me even smaller.
It is happening..and it is about satisfaction and ache.
Ele é bem mais que uma simples palavra, é bem mais que sentir borboletas no estômago ou nervos a flor da pele. Amar é querer estar por perto, é compartilhar as alegrias e tristezas, é estar presente em todos os momentos,é estar feliz pela felicidade…
He cowered in the corner like a scared child, but I could see this was a well-aged man. Thick lines on his face reminded me of the cracks in…
Today I was scheduled to do a photo shoot. Specifically, a boudoir shoot. I’ve never done one before. I had no idea if I’d like it. It wasn’t for anyone or any occasion, it was just because. Maybe mostly because I feel more in love with my body, and more in my body, then I ever have and I loved the idea of…
This world is surrounded by so much evil, but through it we are reminded of the good, the love and the grace.
Falling in love can be a tragedy or a master piece if you let it happen naturally.
Tú eres el infiernoLabios carnososMis gritos sin destino.
There once was a girl named Lee, who had an imagination of at least a 100 different people and was always labeled as a perplexing character. She would walk around with her journal as her armor, an oversized leather jacket that her late father gifted her and a distinguishable walk that could be…
I adore this Jessica Semaan thanks for sharing a truly beautiful process. I liked seeing this today. I’m coming of a 7 Day first (and only) hopefully rehap stint. While only 7 days is rare vs the typically required 30 — 90 days… it’s what worked…
One interesting thing.
Recently I’ve been reading a book about self-esteem, called The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden. One of the things I learned is that self-esteem has nothing to do with how others treat me, but with how I treat myself…
So recently I tried a new online dating site. I’m really liking it, I find I connect more easily with the matches I receive because there’s more than just physical compatibility.
I love my partner.
Like, actually — literally — adore her.
“And the woman bore a son and called his name Samson. And the young man grew, and the Lord blessed him” (Judges 13:24)
Put your hands deep into the soilCan you feel it breathe?Is the moisture palpable?Do you know that your…
I don’t know if I can easily find the right words to make the point of this story. There’s something about taking care of a creature (human or otherwise) with special needs that brings out the best in you and others.
So… moving on from where we left off.
Let’s take one step deeper and try to see the difference between heart and mind.
everything you wrote is so very true… and the fact that most people tend not to see things the way you do ( they do attach themselves to, or “fall in love”- not with an actual person, but to their idea of who and what that person is- and will be- thus, robbing themselves of the chance to actually get to know their partner)
I SO wish more men got this.
When I tried to explain the #1 option to a good friend right before his bachelor party, he looked at me blankly, as if I were speaking a foreign language. Then he acted like, “Of course…” though he had clearly never thought this way before.
Watch sunsets and eat a raw lime .
Feel the ocean and preserve the life ,
That you keep in those hands almost frail and electric .
Forces bound to love and crash at the speed of light .
January 27 — France
Let Go Of The Failed Relationship
Why be in a successful relationship and a failed life yes a good bye will always be painful but finding solutions for our…
Because:
Appreciating one’s gifts increases them.
Seeing with the heart is such a great blessing.
Beauty grows ever more beautiful.
Let my words be flawless today,Clear as silver stream,Fresh as morning spring,Let it reach youtoiling through doubts in your mind,Let it move along your turbulent vistas,Where piety had made melancholic tombs,And proceeds of war made wounds that can't be healed,Where I once made my abode severing your rueful…
Follow the red hot minute, but give up the chase
7 Steps To Self-Love In Recovery
What does self-love even mean? When I got sober, I could barely stand to look at myself in the mirror. If there was such a…
Oh Maulana why must you break my heart?
The jingle jangle of her keys could be heard as soon as she entered the building. Clip, clop, clip, clop. She ascended the staircase, and I knew it was time to stop what I was doing, and get my shoes on. There was no penalty if I wasn’t ready by the time she got to the door. She would come in…
The cycle of nature
In the cycle of nature there is no such thing as victory or defeat: there is only movement.
The winter struggles to reign supreme, but, in the end, is obliged to accept spring’s victory, which brings with it flowers and happiness.
It’s really very hard, but you have to overcome it. It doesn’t matter why the relationship…
How many times have you been told that ‘you are not good enough’, no matter how hard you try?
How many times have you gathered your broken self-esteem and tried harder to please?
Part of memay always miss youor maybe justparts of you,like how you remainone of the most peacefulhuman beingsI have ever knownand with whomI…
Over the holidays, my family’s conversations were filled with, “Do you remember the time when…?” The ensuing story — not its first telling, to be sure — excavated fond memories, helped us remember a loved one or made us laugh. No matter the story, though, it always brought us…
J: I went for the ‘date.’
K: Oh! Did you?! And? I want to know
J: Well… It was all right…
K: Well…?
J: Actually I met him again with friends last evening over dinner… So at a point, it…
Hey you! The one who didn’t love me back;
QUORA.com question asked was: What does “cue the music” mean?
Shane Maloney, Owner at Zyplok LLC. (2016-present)
It is referring to the queue actually of being held in suspension within a given time or space with a designated thoughtfully designed positioning and timing of use. I.E. Man: “Hit it!”…
It’s all good.
I believe that I will conduct myself as befitting a Child Of The Universe.
There are times when I feel forgotten, depressed, bruised, neglected, abused, even people I thought will always be there for me leave me disappointed.There are times everything…
I can’t find you behind the curtains of my dreams anymore. I visit them often now, just to make sure.
Another word
I want to write another word, another phrase, another sentence.
And I want it to feel warm as I do it. I want to grip a warm pen and I want the ink to bleed warm.
Let me feel warm.
Once again it overflowsHollow words in hallowed tonesOozing lifeblood for the crowsBetween each gulf
And there she was, waiting for him all the while. In the hope that he would come for once. But what really was she waiting for ?
Even if I do not know how he wanted, I can not agree with it. If it did not sound like that, the truth is that we never…
A young man in middle school took his own life.
I feel deep sadness. No I did not know him. I did not hear rumours about why he killed himself. I cannot even dare to assume.
Love is just like our house keys: they are never at the place we expect them to be.
We spend most of our time looking for someone perfect, looking for that love we see in romantic movies. What we don’t know is that real love is not like those clichés which we…
dear you,
i almost forgot how to breathe when our common friend mentioned your name over dinner the other day. i wasn’t prepared for the stinging that had followed and the itchiness of wanting to know more about what you’ve been up to. the only fact that kept me from wanting to know more is that, probably everything you do…
Would you have left me just as easily
Had I been your habit of smoking
Would you have made resolutions not to come back
And failed every single time
Would it then have made a difference to you
Mistakenly In Love
I was a fool to think there’s something,In both of us that leads me to endingBut not of my life, of course, But a story that from the very start, never even had a beginning
I looked down at myself and saw the grey pants, andthe blue tie and was pleased with myappearance.
Today’s Wisdom Nugget: Each time a person passes by you and you say ‘hello’, imagine that person turning into a candle. The more positivity, love and light you reflect, the more light is mirrored your way. Sharing…
Almejamos. Miramos longe. Desejamos. Queremos. Mas quando conquistamos, todos os nossos sentimentos se tornam…
First steps to creating a revolutional app.
For my first class in online storytelling we were tasked to create an app that could be successful to the public.As a small group Naomi,Harkiran,Patricia and we decided to create an app centered around you going out for drinks in…
We are far apart by my own design. Not because I want to be away from you, but because I cannot be with you. It pains me daily. If you called me now I would rush across the country to your door.
Family can be toxic.
Dear Dad,
It has been well over three years since I have even seen you. Over four years of us actually having a conversation and there is just so much I want to say. So much hatred. So many questions.
Deep are the oceans,
And far is the sky.
Both don’t spare emotions,
That let you cry.
Shadows are deceiving,
Have you wondered why?
What is to have a “good” conversation with someone? It can either be with someone who is on the same wavelength as you are or with someone who has a contradictory point of view but has the capability to accept and value difference of opinions. It’s quite a…
For as long as I can remember I have been a protector and defender of the vulnerable. This made me a highly empathetic person.
David and Alex, my beautiful brothers are autistic. I could describe my life as their older sister like being Wendy from…
Brian Murphy, MBA, PT and Rehabilitation Manager at Johnson Memorial Health’s new Rehabilitation and Orthopedic Center speaks on the facility’s open floor concept, better lighting and new equipment. “I think it will make for a better experience here at…
Y es que así vamos por la vida, desesperados, buscando y buscando. Dando vueltas y rebuscando. Creyendo que por hacer la búsqueda desesperada, encontraremos más pronto. Y gastamos gran parte d e nuestro tiempo en eso, invertimos las energías intentando encontrar. ¿Qué encontramos? N A D A. Absolutamente nada…
That poem sounds romantic – like two lovers on the brink of death revealing their souls.
I was scared to get attached againI wanted to shout from withinI wanted to cry just to ease the painI really wanted just to disappear
बात से बात निकली और दिल हुए हल्के,
उसी गुफ़्तगू में कई जाम भी चले
तेरी नज़र में गोया गुनाहगार हो गयी ज़ाहिद,
चोट गहरी थी उसकी, ज़ख़्म हरे हो गये मेरे!
गोया-perhaps
maybe it’s time to lay some political books on her table
Há algum tempo atrás eu podia dizer — com toda a certeza- que eu era livre de você. Hoje em dia, sou livre de um jeito meio convencional. Não sei como enquadrar palavras ao que só consigo transmitir.
Although we always try to believe that it will not affect us, then not all relationships are good and there is always a probability
The way you hurt me still lingers with in me, my chest begins to tighten, my throat swells up… I get anxious; weary, my eyes begin to throb, my thoughts are spiraling with no control, & my ears have completely shut down. what is this I am feeling?. My eyes are starting to drown with your lies: I’m…
Sente. Fique e faça morada em meu peito. Estou gostando dessa sensação de liberdade, novamente. Realmente, sempre…
Before the Waste of War,
Hills echoed at dawn:
bluebright moon
in the skyhollow you
held the heart of my
eyes on the skin
of your hands
A positive affecting affirmation to help yourself:
"I continue choosing to believe! I continue to conceive of the outcomes and situations I want to experience in the flesh. I continue to attract and receive good things, great events, awesome people, and…
My journey of love and growth in welcoming a second child.
Make Believe until Happiness is a reality
An introspective post about how to be happy- words matter.
It is 7:31am.
Jan 31st 2018.
You are laying down in bed beside me.
Asleep. Soundly, a little sweaty so I opened a window for you.
I can't sleep my love.
He found the wild within my heart, instead of trying to tame it,
He tore the cage apart!
Shaokhan____ you alone
The small violence done to me by your face, your body, the scent of you when you come too close. I’m there again, your bed, enveloped in that queer scent. Musky, an almost sour bluntness to it, and your body over mine, covering me. Your hair was longer than mine then, and I…
Admiring to STARING
Eyes & Smile to Dick & Vagina’s PAIRING
Love letter to Phone Sex become the best way of CARING
Fucking formality it remained MARRYING…!
LOVE LOST its COST…!
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Stop what you’re doing and look around
There’re always some beauty in pain
Some smile in between tears
Some laughter in your disappointment
Some hope in the loss
Сломай стереотип! Позвони маме и спроси , надела ли она шапку?
She said go, so I wentShe said stop I kept goingShe said why began to cryI saw no reason for the conversation
Dear Reader,
Hello, thanks for being here. This is just going to be a place for my thoughts and feelings. Somewhere for me to spew out words and feelings. Somewhere I am anonymous. Somewhere I can’t be judged.
The passwords that people get on my blog are mostly a valuable source of ideas for new texts. Not…
I love to have fun but when I am overwhelmed with duties, I tend to put fun to one side and pick up ‘complain’.
The more responsibilities you have, the less opportunities you have to be spontaneous. To have some kind of working order with home, work and church life I need consistency and stability.
It can be deceiving. It can grind you up, hurt you, make you into a monster and destroy the world forever.
And it can save a life. It can change your mind.
Love is attention. Attention to details. Attention to memories and feelings. Attention when you need it most —…
Thank you, Selma. What a cool analogy.
Thanks for sharing and bless you too.
a long time ago,
my hands burned with fire
and i was transformed into the sun.
(i understand rage)
(i’ve been misunderstood)
It almost never is.
But I am untrustworthy and I lie a lot to myself for protection.
talking.
i had talked to other girls beforebut before her.i had never really known whattalking.was really like. you see with her. hours felt more like minuitesand the arms on my clock had to be on steroids.because there’s no way they regularly moved that…
To the fallen, there was love
Look back at them,
To the shaken, Clarity
We can cherish then,
To the forgotten, Memories that turn into
Brown Eyed Girl.
when i met youi finally understood whyGodmade humansout of dirt.
-Z.
He woke up abruptly. He looked out of his window. — It was still dark out. He would only live to see this once, but this moment did not seem extraordinary. But what was the difference between this moment and that of his wedding day? Both would last once. Both would fade away. Both should be…
He’s hope trespassing on the blue veined tracks on her arm. She kisses him and explores sunny adventure speeding down steep hills. Her eyes open and he kisses them closed. One for each brown blink.
There are days where all she can hear is the soothing tone of his voice and the laughter bellying in his eyes.
WHO AM I TO BE LOVED?
In “The Heir” the story of America and Maxon goes on. Now they married and have four kids. The firstborn cild who will inherit the throne is Eadlyn Schreave. She was 18 years when her parents made Selection for her. Now, the castle will be visiting 35 men. During the preparations for the event, the castle is…
I walked slow and straight and never swung my legs fast and awkwardly like the rest of the gimps who got around with braces and crutches. My main thing was to act and look cool — angry, and cool and sharp. I talked the post hip talk of the jazzmen and dressed like Joan Didion. I was gonna be the first heavy-weight boxing champion on crutches, a one…
The red rose represents love, beauty, courage, respect, romantic love, congratulations, sincere love, passion and the words I Love You. It is important to know that when you are giving the red rose, you are expressing one of these words. Finally want to say the words ‘’I love…