Self Improvement

How do you know you’re with the wrong person?

You don’t know you’re with the wrong person until you’re with the right one…

These 15 Fun Life Experiments Will Teach You Skills, Create Confidence, And Change Your Life

Comment prendre des notes efficacement pendant vos lectures

Vous aimez lire des livres de non-fictions mais vous n’arrivez pas à retenir ce que vous lisez ? Ou du mois vous n’arrivez pas à structurer ce que vous venez d’apprendre afin de pouvoir le réutiliser par la suite ?

What I do on a daily basis to “feel” like I’m becoming a better designer

Today I Realized I’m Going To Die

I’ve been feeling low on energy lately.

Accountability Through Self-Reflection: Two Practices To Connect With Yourself

Self-reflection reveals what we want most.

Self-reflection is a powerful accountability tool that helps us identify places where we can…

The Disillusioned

Seeing and Changing

How To Go Big By Going Small

“Showing up is essential. Showing up consistently is powerful. Showing up consistently with a positive…

5 Ways To Kill Smartphone Addiction

I love my phone.

So you’ve left your work till the last minute. Now what?

Here are my tools for dealing with…

Abundance and Scarcity — How Your Mindset Affects Your Relationships, Work and Wellbeing

A Man Takes a Drink

Facing my addiction every day

11 Kickass Resources For Jump-Starting Your Life As A Vagabond

Take Your Hands Out of Your Pockets

When I was born, doctors told my parents I would never walk. To everyone’s surprise, I began…

How to Stop Being Scared of Being Scared

Three Keys to Switching Your Mindset

Part 4: The 6 types of toxic friends even the most mentally healthy among us can turn into — on occasion. (The Drama Magnet)

Jedi Mind Trick: Before You Say “Yes” To Something New, Say “No”

Maximize your productivity and save your sanity

Between the Muse and Me

On Resuming the Conversation With Creativity

Warrior Wisdom: Confessions of A Warrior

The Art of Warriorship

Life lessons on experiences

There are two ways to live life, one is on the sidelines and one is on the field. I want to be on the field. I…

界線意識與共生關係

弄清楚界線意識是想要掌握自己說了算的空間的基礎

界線意識

當缺乏界線意識時，你的內在會不願意變卓越。例如如果你優秀了，你會背負家庭使命，而你不能獨自享受優秀，整個家庭會依賴你。

你必須確立一塊屬於你的地盤、你的空間，才有可能走向最終的目標，擁有一個你說了算的人生

Boundaries: Why You Need to Know What They Are

Put yourself on the list

The S.M.A.R.T. goal-setting formula that will get you straight As

Albert Einstein once said that the…

4 Reasons Why Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Will Make You a Better Leader

If you are pretty sure you tend to act outside of your comfort zone I have some bad news…you probably don’t. The reality of facing a situation that is outside your comfort zone will hit you like a…

Knowledge > Intelligence

using an analogy from the kitchen

Sit and Wait or Take Action?

There are two basic approaches to reaching your goals: waiting or taking…

Childhood Demons Revisited

Allow me to introduce you to my parents. Although my mother was loving and kind, she was emotionally unavailable…

Lesson Learn From #Fellowship

“A beautiful journey comes to an end “

#AmalFellowship life changing journey..

A Guide to French Pronunciation

French was the first language where I was able to transform myself into a fluent speaker of another…

Top 5 mistakes sales reps do during their sales pitch

OPTIONAL IS BULLSHIT

“I don’t think it is fair that the word, ‘optional ‘ or ‘elective’ is used when referring to the second half of the mastectomy portion of your surgery,” my dear friend Sara stated so matter of factly and her voice of reason as usual brought me back to reality. I was reviewing the trials and tribulations…

I drastically changed my approach to sleep. Here’s why.

And how it’s changed the way I think about my…

Here’s A Top Quora Writer’s Most Powerful Life Tip

Outlast Them All — Improvement, Perseverance And Dynamism

【命運】自我實現的預言

一個人常說的那些話，可能會成為他自己的生命預言。

潛意識就是命運

我們外在命運和我們的內在想像，也就是內在意識，是鏡像關係。如果想改變自己外在命運，就需要認識和改變自己的內在意識。多數情況，當事人的內在意識做出的合理選擇，卻因為當事人不清楚他的內在意識，所以將結果歸因成外在命運。(假設前提：我們做的任何選擇都是為了追求好處)

內在想像中，包含意識和潛意識。

The Single Most Important Skill: Self-Love

For the longest time, I’ve cared too much about what other people thought of me.

Gratidão

Esse texto é uma homenagem a minha família e aos meus amigos:

What I Learned from Being in the“Do It” Mind Set

【命運】打贏你的內在比賽

一個人的內心怎麼感知這場比賽，對比賽結果有很大的影響

【內在比賽】最佳狀態：放鬆而專注，讓自己盡可能活在當下

警惕你的自我成就感

如果你用正確的方式擊球，而且幹的不錯，就會產生一種【自我成就感】。因為你會覺得自己是控制者，能夠掌控局面。但如果你只是順其自然地發球，感覺就好像不是你在擊球，這似乎不算你的功勞。
【The Inner Game of Tennis】 -W.Timothy Gallwey

Ask & You Shall Receieve…Ish

Multiple obstacles can sit in front of your desired ASK bringing you…

Why You Never Ditch Your Comfort Zone: Reason 1 And Resolution

A Series Of Reasons From Real People

Losing Motivation And 3 Ways To Recharge

Everyone plateaus.

Rejection Sucks. Here are 7 healthy ways to deal with it…

LOWER your standards for GREATER success; 7 step process

How to Ruin your Chance of Success

“A life lived of choice is a life of conscious action. A life lived of chance is a life of…

【命運】權威期待的力量

羅森塔爾效應

權威人物對我們的期待，假設我們把來自外界的反饋都比喻成鏡子，那麼在所有鏡子裡，有一面對人有巨大的影響力，這面鏡子叫做權威。
自我實現的預言，源頭很有可能是權威對我們的期待
如果你對一些人賦予強烈的期待，這份期待就會奏效

權威的期待，可以強而有力地影響人和動物(權威：有權力、威望或有資源的那一方)

Releasing my fear of being alone in Bali

It is 5am and I am waiting in my hotel lobby for my transfer to the airport because today…

The Best Way to Quit a Bad Habit Is to… Replace It With Another Habit

Unless you’re biting your nails, in which case just wear gloves

50 Books I’ve Read This Year, and My Chase for 100 in 2017 (September Update)

Never Feel Good Enough? This one’s for you ❤

I used to, for most of my life, feel “not good enough.” Can you relate? That’s…

Can Destructive Self Talk Lead To Negative Results?

Life lessons learned from an eight-year-old’s tantrum.

Start Loving Yourself Today

I want to propose a toast to us, I want to propose something to you. Get a glass of wine, a beer, a whiskey, a…

Blazing New Trails Down the Path Less Travelled

My Sacred Minutes

Meditation. What exactly is meditation? Is it the euphoric feeling of enlightenment after long periods of sitting with a quiet…

True Relating: Letting Go of What We Think We Know

“One should not try to dilute the meaning of the relation: relation is reciprocity.”

— Martin Buber, I and Thou

Me Versus Me: Fighting Self-Doubt

A couple of weeks ago I was talking with a close friend about a startup that I’m working on and He…

Your Greatest Offering To The World Is To Be Yourself

Will you dare?

The Great Awakening

It’s in giving love to each other, helping the lost, pulling up the broken, that we all can grow to be positive contributors and stop the ongoing violence

Beating Anxiety With One Easy Step

Another morning, more worries flooding the day. The weight on our shoulders is often heavy and exhausting because we attempt to carry more than possible. So what are you worrying about? Chances are it changes all the time.

4 Ways to Unlock a Sense of Purpose

Create a life of meaningful action and activity

On Humility

At first glance, humility does not seem in vogue in the modern world. We spend so much time online procuring a picture of our lives that…

When Your Mom’s the Only One Who Reads Your Stuff — be Glad!

When You’re On The Right Path

Things will magically unfold

How an Eviction Notice Changed My Future

By Davan, a junior at MHS

Staying Strong During the Greatest Collective Evolution in the History of Humanity

How Entertainment is the Key to Unlock Your Quantum Abilities and Why Self-Awareness is the Most Valuable Asset to Your…

Your Legacy Matters

The years are passing by, time is flying right before our eyes. 18 years old quickly turns into 21. 21 years old quickly…

Overcome Procrastination in 2 Minutes

You can’t win the fight with the Lizard Brain

Time to Push (a poem)

Time to Push
by Laura Di Franco

The Struggle

There are days when brushing teeth feels like a humongous feat, just dragging myself to the bathroom is a challenge.

Hell… opening my eyes and keeping them open upon waking up is a struggle.

So what do i do?

7 tips to becoming more confident

Confidence, everyone wants it, not everyone has it. Wouldn’t it be great if there was a magic wand that could give you amazing self-confidence. Well, unfortunately there isn’t, like learning to walk and talk, confidence is a skill and takes work. Like any skill, if you…

de·pressed

Perpetually exhausted is how I would describe it. No amount of sleep can cure it. No vacation getaway is far enough away to escape it. And…

Why I visited /r/reddevils eight times yesterday

Following the passion, the story, and the mistake

I’m not even that big a Man Utd fan (I support Mourinho). Everything has halted for international break, and nothing is likely to happen…

Jack-assery in the christian faith and how to change it.

It’s up to you and me. I’ll go first.

Can You Turn Your Weaknesses Into a Strength?

Here’s the truth: you can’t be good at everything. No matter how wonderful you…

What about…Love?

Was a frequently asked question I got for years. As I got closer to my thirties it’s the only aspect in my life my mom was…

Spiegeltje, spiegeltje

*Vul zelf een foute wekkermelodie in* gaat af. Het is vroeg in de ochtend, de eerste zonnestralen vallen als een…

How to change your brain (and why it’s so hard)

Let Go

The Art of Letting Go and How to Manifest your Desires, by completely abandoning them.

See, the Law of Attaction is a philosophy. A philosophy of life. There are certain ideals we strive for and an outlook on life we try to have.

My Rejected Writing Topics (Part 2)

In November of last year I published a list of my rejected writing topics here on Medium, which…

5 Ways To Boost Your Self-Confidence

No matter where we are or what we’re doing, we have our own internal voice that accompanies our thoughts and feelings on a constant basis. Sometimes we can be our own greatest obstacle if we allow that internal dialog to go astray and cycle through undesirable…

What Drugs Do

Drugs will court you when your young and convince you they’re nothing more than pure sport or fun. After all, the more famous someone…

BUILD YOUR CHARACTER

It’s no secret, the quality of your life, your success and even your level of happiness all depend a great deal on your…

5 things I learnt from my Thailand Trip!!

I haven been everywhere but its on my list

This quote sums up my life dream perfectly. There is so much you learn when you go to a new place,you meet new people,eat new cuisines ,come face to face with…

Your online appearance affects your real life

Before presenting yourself in social media, just remember that there is…

On getting out of the comfort zone.

To me getting out of the zone is either scary or sweaty. It is either about hard work or getting over an emotional threshold of fear.

But once we are out there we start receiving the rewards. Endorphine, dopamine and serotonine to mention few. And bigger and better…

Effective learning for software engineers

I’ve been learning since before I can remember: first, learning to read, then, reading to learn.

Ironically, what I never focused on until very recently was learning to learn.

Self-Care: Make it Work for You!

Self-Care is not a four letter word (or rather two words), its not some crazy new fad either…

How do you know if you are heading in the right direction?

One Word At A Time: I

Working on my poetry one. Word. At. A. Time.

Expecting¹ different,² still.³

Awake.⁴ Turning.⁵

Expecting¹ || Free Will

analysis paralysis

stop thinking and start doing

What Former Australian Prime Minister Paul Keating and Self Discipline Share In Common

Create your happiness at the workplace

Don’t we go through the occasional sense of boredom at the workplace? If we wait for our…

To be like her

I have never felt this small when it comes to grades, I don’t really excel at my study nor do I want to. What matters to me is that I understand the lesson and that is it. I have always been that ordinary student. I don’t excel and I don’t do bad too. I’m somewhere in between and I’m okay with that.

And… Action!

This post is being written on a film set.

It all happened pretty fast. I was figuring out today’s plans last night. The logistics were super tight between having two work shifts, replacing the serpentine belt on my van and biking everywhere I needed to be at. As I was mentally…

What are some good tips for (beginner) writers?

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Technology has highlighted the importance of learning. If you are looking to get a job in tech, and wondering what skills/knowledge you should learn before applying, know that the…

Denver Startup Week Reflection

Denver Startup Week is the largest free entrepreneurial event in North America. It celebrates everything…

Sacrifice Now to Live Better later

Since hubby and I got married last month we’ve spent some time looking at the changes we can make…

Honestly, if you were to put this post together with a few checklists, you’d have the basics for a Warrior Forum product. (Please don’t do that ;-)

You’ve got exactly here in this post the pieces that people need to make a name for themselves by sharing their ideas on Medium. You’ve got the hacks pegged and the idea that…

Good Vibes

Are You in Need of a Confidence Boost?

Have you ever sat back, observed the most significant achiever in your field, and wished you…

A quick blast through the things that will make your novel the best it can be

Writing a novel is tough enough without venturing onto the internet to look for help and advice. There are thousands of results out there if you do a quick Google search and many of these…

But I love my bed

You know those people that take cute pictures and say I woke up like this. Yea, I’m not one of those people.

Thank you very much for this article. I have been misunderstood for so long because I am a 3 time college dropout, preferring to self-study specific things I find interesting, beneficial and profitable to me. I only kept going back because of other people’s fears. Consequently I left social media and just like you said, the crowd doesn’t like…

Improving Continuously to Excel

It was the real-time experience to take online assessment test of Economics and after taking this…

Knowing yourself by online assessment

This is good tool to assess yourself and know your weaknesses and strengths. I was really…

You Don’t Need To Fix It, You Just Need To Listen

In Every Moment

Beauty has an uplifting quality. 
Humans behave better when surrounded by it.

Sacred and Mundane

An artist needs to live — the profane and the sacred — as much as he needs to analyze, study, and interpret.